update on hubby

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Registered: 12-02-2005
update on hubby
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Thu, 03-29-2007 - 9:58am

Morning....

OK I am sooo proud of hubby because he has gone down to get help, get evaluated, etc...HA! They tell him, we usually get people in within 10 days of them applying, well it'll be 6 weeks before we can get you in. UGGGHHHH He says 6 weeks, what about people who are suicidal and homicidal, she says, yeah that can be a problem, NAHHH ya think? But right now he is hanging in there as we all are..He talks openly to me about how he is feeling, and has said that it has really helped to have me know. HMMM maybe ya couldve told me 4 years ago? :)
ANNNDDDD.. I am having my DD evalutated as well. SHe is beyond the normal for teen age hormones. She wsa recently diagnosed with PCOS, her bio-dad is schytsophrenic, and her g-ma was bi-polar ( my mom). I have dealt with her anger at the world, her unusual fasination with the dark side, not goth, but vampires etc. Good kid, great grades, been on her job for a year, but she goes from being happy, to mad, to depressed in 10 seconds flat. so for a while I kept her and hubby seperated, because they seem to fuel off of each others temper etc..
Well, we were in docs office the other day and I checked her cell phone to see what time it was, she started freaking out.. so I think out what is she hiding.. Holly crap she is having text cyber sex with some kid from out of state. I recently found out she is sexually active. SO we get home she goes to work, I get on her computer that she just got and we just got internet on it..I about had a heart attck.. she is doing online dateing, porn,,lying about her age etc... cyber sex.. EVERYTHING! My DD that never lied to me before and was a typical teen has started lieing her a** off to me these last couple of weeks. Things that I already know shell look me right in the eye and lie. ugghhh
SO here we go again. But her and hubby are getting along. I have told all the kids what is going on and why DH had been how he has, they have been great about it..
Im still waiting for my valium..:)
have a great one! susie

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Registered: 09-01-2004
In reply to: mom_tazzy
Thu, 03-29-2007 - 2:18pm

(((((Susie)))))


That kind of wait (or much longer) is VERY common in our area, unfortunately.