Oh Boy! (promiscuity)

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Registered: 04-01-2007
Oh Boy! (promiscuity)
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Thu, 07-26-2007 - 8:03pm
So I'm not even sure what "state" to put myself in lately. I've been very tired, but also had symptoms of mania. Major one being the return of my promiscuious thoughts. I'm married (and also trying to end a year long affair, which started because of these feelings). Now I have a male friend coming over to visit and am thinking about terrible things, and also some of the other men I know. What the hell is wrong with me. So far I haven't acted on any thing (lately). Now not only would I be hurting my DH but also my AP. Oh boy! Why can't I control my thoughts.
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Registered: 04-27-2006
Fri, 07-27-2007 - 9:55pm

Having hypersexual feelings is part of the mania. Maybe you need to talk with your pdoc about these thoughts and see if a med adjustement may help. Also, if you have a tdoc she/he may be able to help you control your behavior. Thoughts we can't always control, but behaviors we can try, but some times we need to talk it out and come up with a game plan. One thing you can do is don't put yourself in a situation where the temptation is so high. Don't have men around you with just you and them alone.


Tina

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