Yeah, I want kids, he doesn't (lol), but we've had the baby conversation and he said he doesn't want to be selfish, but if we decide to have kids we need to start planning soon. Im 30 and he's a year younger. I'm scared to bring up the topic because he's really that enthused about it and I feel like I'm putting pressure on him. Anyway, I'd be satisfied with one healthy child. He loves kids, so that's a plus. I hope by the time we start TTC that he'll feel better towards the whole thing.
I'd like four - DH insists we stop at three. He'll likely win. He's going to be 45 this year. He's already going to be working for the rest of his life, I should respect some of that, right? Here's the caveat - I REFUSE to have my tubes tied.
Jules - Happily married and Momma to DS, DD and expecting our Caboose Baby 11/24/2012
I want two he would be happy with just one but I don't want our son to be an only child.
David Nicholas 12/5/09Expecting a GIRL 3/23/13
I think my number has changed more then DH's. When we first started dating I wanted 2 and he is one of 3 so he was more on the 3 side. Well I always told him if we had two boys or two girls then we would shoot for 3 but that was it and I would be done. Now going through pregnancy and everthing I think I definatly want three possibly 4. It just all depends on how life plays out.
I have two and I want two more. My fiance wants two as well. (he doens't have any other than mine)
If I had met him years back we would probably be trying for 3-4 of our own to add to my two. (I'm 33 now so I don't think I have quite enough time for another 3-4, we'll see)