Depression and unemployment

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Depression and unemployment
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Fri, 10-14-2011 - 11:19am

I've been unemployed for over a year now and I'm starting to get really depressed. Sometimes I feel like I'll never get another job and I don't know what I'll do for the rest of my life. I'm 50 and I feel I am facing some age discrimination but, there's nothing I can do about my age. I am finding it really hard to look into the future and see a way out of this. I'm really staring to lose hope.

How do your cope? What keeps you going?

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Registered: 06-03-2009
Fri, 10-14-2011 - 11:59am

Ahhh yes it is frustrating when depression rears its ugly head time and time again.

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Registered: 03-18-1999
Fri, 10-14-2011 - 7:53pm

I have been unemployed for 2 years now and understand completely as I am 43.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Sat, 10-15-2011 - 11:44am

Hi;
I can also relate to this as my income has dropped tremendously since 2008 and last year... I am 57 female and I am noticing that I am getting more depressed than usual... Actual right now I am in a bad funk because of cc debt .. I got divorced in 2007 and since then I have been struggling.

I live with family due to economy and that has taken its toll on me. Although i have some income and savings it frightens me to keep draining the income..

I do see a few jobs here and there but they are very few and far between and they are too far away for me to even consider them.

Yes; I also agree that age is a factor.. I mean if a 30 year old cant get a job how is a 57 year old going to get a job?

I think I get through by prayer and support from friends. I am also in survival mode in which I hate but what else can I do?

I do volunteer and have friends that when around we talk things through. We talk about how we are surviving and we vent as much as we can. If I didnt have that then it could be worse.

The depression is a ripple effect. Its like some days I lose hope and then other days I want to accomplish alot.

the only sad thing is that i have no one to fall back on being single and with no partner.. that is what makes it really tough.

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Registered: 04-07-2011
Fri, 01-27-2012 - 8:16pm

I raised my kids alone after my husband died and worked part time. My income is running out and I want to work full time but at 52 I feel like I will never work again and that the future is bleak. I am a professional so schooling is not the issue.

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Registered: 06-03-2009
Sat, 01-28-2012 - 1:02am
Welcome to the board magoo, feel free to jump in the chatter at any time. If you browse a bit you'll find many members in a situation similar to yours. An established well educated professional with a family to support, yet the jobs don't seem to be out there. I think it is ok to allow yourself a day to feel down in the dumps and gripe and moan and whatever you need to express. After that it is important to be proactive. I know it isn't easy and I know opportunities are limited, but constantly putting yourself out there is better than letting depression take over.

What type of work do you normally do? Perhaps the members here will have some suggestions to help your search.
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Registered: 02-13-2006
Thu, 02-09-2012 - 10:14am
Why dont you try looking for work online?You are missing on an entire area.
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Registered: 08-10-2010
Wed, 03-21-2012 - 12:04am

Hi,

Sorry about your situation.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Sat, 03-24-2012 - 12:15pm

yes; sorry for many people are struggling.. there are still no jobs and I am aging and I swear no one wants to hire or date for that matter an almost 58 year old woman.

I live with toxic people but I have no choice at this time.. I am being proactive and trying everything I can from house sitting to living for free as a nanny, etc.etc.. I come up empty as its either no one calls back or its a scam..
Its become more and more frustrated and no one can help.. suggestions are offered and its useless..

The only thing I can go on is faith and hope..but the hope is waning.

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Registered: 08-23-1997
Sun, 03-25-2012 - 11:12am
I see that this post the I started way back in Oct has gotten some recent postings so I'm happy to give an update. Somehow I managed to carry on and I finally got a job in January!. But....it's a long term sub position, however, the man I'm subbing for is retiring in June and I must reapply for the job. I'm hopeful that they'll decide to hire me for real, but who knows. I've been burned too many times to think this is in the bag.
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Registered: 06-03-2009
Wed, 03-28-2012 - 9:41pm
Thanks for the update guili, hopefully things will continue to look up for you. With so many struggling it is nice to know there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
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