Dating Dealbreakers...

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Dating Dealbreakers...
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Tue, 10-18-2011 - 11:53am

When deciding whether or not to accept another date, what is it that totally turns you off? Calls from his mother? Smoking? He doesn't believe in leaving tips? lol-what is that one thing that totally breaks the deal for you?

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Tue, 10-18-2011 - 3:01pm
Well I do have a list as it so happens. LOL Smoking definitely. And wanting kids, because I sure as heck don't at this point in my life! Also people who want to jump into a full blown relationship after one date.

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Registered: 11-12-2001
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 3:39pm
Chewing with their mouth open/talking with food in their mouth, swearing, being rude to wait staff and telling off-color jokes would never get you a 2nd date with me!.


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Registered: 05-07-2007
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 6:34pm
iv_miranda_d wrote:
Well I do have a list as it so happens. LOL Smoking definitely. And wanting kids, because I sure as heck don't at this point in my life! Also people who want to jump into a full blown relationship after one date.
Darn it - looks like baby showers for Miranda are out!
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Tue, 10-18-2011 - 6:38pm
md_twin_mommy wrote:
Chewing with their mouth open/talking with food in their mouth, swearing, being rude to wait staff and telling off-color jokes would never get you a 2nd date with me!.

Ewwww on the mouth open/talking with food!

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Registered: 06-03-2009
Wed, 10-19-2011 - 1:32am
Smoking, drug use, or even mentioning that he has either habit. Racial slurs. Being cheap... ie not paying, suggesting going dutch, not tipping, or pitching a fit about the bill.
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Registered: 09-02-2003
Wed, 10-19-2011 - 11:43am
Honestly? I do try to avoid them. LOL Teenagers might be okay, but I just don't wan to go back to having to find babysitters, or god forbid, changing diapers LOL

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Wed, 10-19-2011 - 12:05pm
carrie_mt wrote:

Ewwww on the mouth open/talking with food!


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Registered: 05-07-2007
Wed, 10-19-2011 - 1:07pm
iv_miranda_d wrote:
Honestly? I do try to avoid them. LOL Teenagers might be okay, but I just don't wan to go back to having to find babysitters, or god forbid, changing diapers LOL

Honestly I don't blame you!

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Registered: 05-07-2007
Wed, 10-19-2011 - 1:09pm
iv_miranda_d wrote:
Also people who want to jump into a full blown relationship after one date.

I had a guy once tell me that "he felt like he had known me all his life" and that was about 20minutes into the first date.

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Wed, 10-19-2011 - 1:11pm
md_twin_mommy wrote:
carrie_mt wrote:

Ewwww on the mouth open/talking with food!

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