Not sure what to do

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2011
Not sure what to do
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Tue, 12-06-2011 - 4:22pm

Hi.

Community Leader
Registered: 05-14-2001
Tue, 12-06-2011 - 9:00pm

Welcome to the board, Bella1015 ~

So you don't think my questions are because I doubt you, let me first say I'm a big believer in your gut.


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2011
Tue, 12-06-2011 - 9:41pm

I wish I didn't sound so crazy.

Community Leader
Registered: 05-14-2001
Tue, 12-06-2011 - 11:25pm

You don't sound crazy, not at all.


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2011
Wed, 12-07-2011 - 11:23am

Community Leader
Registered: 05-14-2001
Thu, 12-08-2011 - 3:55am

Bella, we had another poster here with the same kind of problem a while back.


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2011
Thu, 12-08-2011 - 11:18am

Ok. So this morning I had a conversation.

Community Leader
Registered: 05-14-2001
Fri, 12-09-2011 - 1:46am

I understand.


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2009
Fri, 12-09-2011 - 9:40am

EDIT: I just read your response, which I missed before. I think you need to end this relaitonship. You really don't trust him, you just want to act like you do. He is secretive about their communications and regardless of whether it's because it's an inappropriate friendship to begin with, or because he feels stifled by your jealousy, this is a relationship that should end. Gut feelings are important, and something is telling you that this isn't right.

If you really do have a problem having any female friends, then that would be one thing, but I don't think I would trust this "friendship" either.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Sat, 12-10-2011 - 12:39am
I think it all looks fishy. The really long texting sessions and him suggesting the property that just happens to be where SHE works. Whether or not the company ends up buying that property or the other one, he will still be traveling to the city she's in regularly for work. I think you are always going to be at home wondering and worrying about whether something is going on between them when he's over there. Bottom line is your not comfortable with the relationship between them and have reason not to trust him. Don't think I would be either were it my BF.