will drug testing help?
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|Mon, 02-13-2012 - 6:05pm|
will drug testing help stop the lying? will it help him face the truth... that i can't have him living with me if he's using suboxen or any drug. and that he can't lie because the test will show if he's taking it....
I found a website that sells drug tests for really cheap.... and i've bought a few.... But something inside tells me that it won't stop his problem or help the situation.
What are some of your thoughts?
He's out of the house. We talk on the phone and have gone out to dinner. He says he's been clean since last tuesday. Friday night i tested him and he was positive... said that web pages are saying it takes 7 days to clear out of the system. But even if he tests clean one time... how many times would i have to keep testing him?
maybe i'm jumping ahead? maybe he'll never test clean. I know he has a problem but he says he can just quit and be fine. I'm not buying it... then he said, well you have the test now so what's the point in lying.
anyway... i'd like to believe he'll have a breakthru. but i'm not holding my breath. I'm very angry that he's been lying again. I feel i can't trust him.... even if the tests come out good. But he doesn't want me to give up hope on him.
so anyways, what impact will drug testing have... i wonder.