How long has it been..

i lost my daughter July 31, 2011. i wanted to conceive as soon as possible after losing our baby but my partner wanted to wait 6 months. so we went the whole "not "not" trying" route. i desperately want to get pregnant again. in retrospect i'm glad we didn't get pregnant a few months afterwards because i'm just starting to feel like myself again - 7 months later. i'm also less fearful of being pregnant again. we are going to actively start trying this cycle.