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|Sun, 03-25-2012 - 8:25am|
My husband went to his class reunion in 1988 - when he came back...he told me he had found an apartment and he moved out and filed for divorce. He was gone a month, dropped the divorce and moved back home. If I had known then what I know now, I wouldn't have fought for my marriage. I thought he met someone at his reunion...just found out lately he was having an affair. I even ended up with a STD and I still didn't know. Can we say naive?
Fast forward to present...my middle daughter and her new husband of one year went to see him the end of October 2011. He called them before they got to his house wanting to know if it was OK to bring a friend to dinner. When they got there, they were introduced to the OW and my husband said "Oh, by the way, DON'T tell your Mother!!!" My daughter and her Dad have always had a very troubled relationship so she "played nice" until the OW left and then she told her Dad..Either you tell Mom or I will. What a horrible position to put our daughter in (she is 33) and I will never forgive him for that.
My husband called me on October 30, 2011 (my oldest daughter's 36th birthday) He came right out and told me he was seeing someone else. My heart shattered into a million pieces right then and there and I will never be the same. It was a very short conversation...I couldn't think, I couldn't breathe, but I remember every word.
There was only one time that I was suspicious...we were together for Christmas 2008 and I caught him on the phone...hiding in the bathroom. I could tell from the conversation that it was a woman but when I confronted him...he told me it was his sister. I have never had any reason to not believe him...I trusted him completely...can we say naive?
After the d-day call 10-30-2011...I found the other woman (on-line search)