Is my marriage toxic?
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|Sun, 04-08-2012 - 5:44am|
First off, please bear with my English because it’s just my second language. Anyway, here’s my situation.
I am with my husband for 5 years, 2 years married and 3 years dating. I met him when he came to my country as a tourist while I was working as a tourist guide. I was never married but I have a son, he was divorced and has a daughter. Most of our relationship was long distance, phone, text, email and skype. He comes to see me every year for the past 3 years and stay with me for about 2-3 weeks each time until we got married. Everything was good until I went to stay with him after the wedding.
Some of things I discovered about my husband when I was with him:
He is obsessed with his 21 years old daughter and he was like a puppy that does everything for her. His daughter is a complete bitch but he doesn’t see it.
From time to time, he still gives money to his ex-wife, talk to her all the time. When I asked why they have to be that close, his response was, the ex might know something about their daughter that he was not aware of.