we have made a decision

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Registered: 05-02-2010
we have made a decision
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Mon, 04-09-2012 - 7:55pm
We have decided to save up the money and do IVF, I am going to get a second part time job long enough to save it up the only thing is I told my husband that if we go the ivf route I want to do a biopsy and is icsi with his sperm, I just need you ladies to tell me it is okay if I have a baby at 35 if it takes that long
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Registered: 06-24-2006
Tue, 04-10-2012 - 1:44pm
OHHHHH I think you are so smart for making the decision. I had our youngest at 37.....so I think 35 is great. Oh I am excited for you!!!!!!
Lisa- Blessed mom of 3 with the help of iui.
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Registered: 11-13-2008
Tue, 04-10-2012 - 2:38pm
It's totally okay to have a baby at 35 or even later! All that matters is that the baby is brought into a loving environment :)

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Registered: 05-02-2010
Tue, 04-10-2012 - 11:23pm
Thank you so much sometimes I feel like things need to be right now and I have got to learn patience
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Registered: 08-03-2011
Wed, 04-11-2012 - 7:11am
I think it is definitely okay. Excited to see you are going the IVF route! I may be joining you in IVF sometime during the summer... Are you making an appt to talk with your RE about this? Best of luck and KUP.
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Registered: 05-02-2010
Wed, 04-11-2012 - 9:11am
My RE is 3 hours away so I am going to have tests done first and then we will proceed, I will definately keep y'all updated and I will be watching for yalls BFP's
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Registered: 11-28-2011
Thu, 04-12-2012 - 11:54am

It's totally not too late for you!

Mary (32) DH (33) - TTC#1 since Feb '10 DOR, FSH 13, AMH low, AFC <4. HSG all clear. SA good. IUI's #1, #2, #3 Dec'11, Feb'12, Apr'12 - all BFN.  Mini-IVF#1 BFP! Beta #1-104, Beta #2-244