How to let him down easily
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How to let him down easily
| Tue, 04-10-2012 - 1:08am |
I feel terrible for thinking this way, but I am in a relationship with a GREAT guy that's just not for me.
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Tinyblu, with the exception of the height difference, all your reasons for ending this are good.
I agree--you just have to break up w/ him and he's going to be upset & hurt--there is really no way to get around it.
First of all, you don't have to feel terrible about anything.
Ah, yes - now I remember.
Tinyblu-
Hi. As the song says, sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. Just tell him straight out that you think he is a sweet guy, but just not for you. Anyway, the purpose of dating is too see whether or not someone is right for you. You're not doing him any favors by lingering. Let him be free to find a woman who will be enthusiastic about him.
Good luck.
Everyone is right... glad you caught the "short" thing!!!!
I've actually been avoiding his calls (really acting like a guy who's treated me that way in the past) and declining to go out with him.
He says he wants to see me this weekend (haven't seen each other in two weeks), and I was originally wanted to decline, but I think I will probably meet him in a public place and have the conversation with him.
Check out this site...http://leaveyourlover365.blogspot.com/.....there is some funny content as well as serious suggestions for ending a relationship. There is also a link to books and such on breaking up. I think you'll find something useful you can use to figure this out.