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manager becomes copy cat.
| Wed, 04-11-2012 - 3:00am |
Hi everyone, any help I would really appreciate.
This is a long story so I will cut it as shirt as possible. I started work at this salon and my manager was actually quite young so over time we became close friends. She had a partner who travelled the world so.most if the time she was alone and drank wine alot at the end if the day. She never wear make-up and was always on a diet (soup diet) and weighed herself all the time even got scales out at work to weigh all of us (I was the heaviest by about 10lbs. Anyway I put make-up on her, so obviously she started wearing it but I told her I.loved chanel, then all the time she would rant to clients about how much she loved chanel, even brought the film to watch! I would bring in uncle bens rice for work....so she did too. I started eating dates loads, so did she. She even said once in front of me to a client that dates were her favourite food. Each time she did this I'd stop eating the food and bring something different in. She started going to the gym and had an affair with het PT, I.wasn't ever allowed to.leave the salon even if it was busy but then she started leaving at lunch! Obviously to meet him!
I couldn't even fit on here how many times she copied my eating habbits, lifestyle and looks. To top it off I started losing alot of weight on slimming world, one trick is snacking on mullerlight yogurts, she saw me eating this alot. One day I got in and there was a mullerlight! Not.mine!! Drives.me insane. Anyway I eventually handed in my notice as I was set to go travelling. Near the time I was very slim and she never once said "you look like you've lost weight" yet I knew it was obvious I had as everyone would say it to me. When I left before I went travelling I came in to say hi/bye and a client stood next yo her and said to me wow you look.amazing, your tiny. Rodent she kook tiny!? My.manager finally Said yea she looks great! Ah the first time and forced by someone else. Anyway I was glad to leave. Upon my returns from my travels, I met up.with her and omg she looks anorexic! And there was mullerlight yogurt in her fridge. It really effects me as I just feel suffocated and irritated she didn't ever even ask me what I did to.lose weight. She pretended it didn't happen. Another thong I Just thought of was when I had my interview with her, I told how.much I wanted to do make-up she even said she would look into getting me make-up in the salon (she never dud) oh but a year on she out herself on a make-up course which cost £300 she only just started applying her own. And she didn't even.invite.me.
She even got one of her new friends (she only just.met) to check up on me when she was in holiday. Wtf??? I had been working there years! What a joke.
She still msgs now to.meet up. I can't bring myself to do it. I feel annoyed.
Am I right to feel like this? What would you do?
This is a long story so I will cut it as shirt as possible. I started work at this salon and my manager was actually quite young so over time we became close friends. She had a partner who travelled the world so.most if the time she was alone and drank wine alot at the end if the day. She never wear make-up and was always on a diet (soup diet) and weighed herself all the time even got scales out at work to weigh all of us (I was the heaviest by about 10lbs. Anyway I put make-up on her, so obviously she started wearing it but I told her I.loved chanel, then all the time she would rant to clients about how much she loved chanel, even brought the film to watch! I would bring in uncle bens rice for work....so she did too. I started eating dates loads, so did she. She even said once in front of me to a client that dates were her favourite food. Each time she did this I'd stop eating the food and bring something different in. She started going to the gym and had an affair with het PT, I.wasn't ever allowed to.leave the salon even if it was busy but then she started leaving at lunch! Obviously to meet him!
I couldn't even fit on here how many times she copied my eating habbits, lifestyle and looks. To top it off I started losing alot of weight on slimming world, one trick is snacking on mullerlight yogurts, she saw me eating this alot. One day I got in and there was a mullerlight! Not.mine!! Drives.me insane. Anyway I eventually handed in my notice as I was set to go travelling. Near the time I was very slim and she never once said "you look like you've lost weight" yet I knew it was obvious I had as everyone would say it to me. When I left before I went travelling I came in to say hi/bye and a client stood next yo her and said to me wow you look.amazing, your tiny. Rodent she kook tiny!? My.manager finally Said yea she looks great! Ah the first time and forced by someone else. Anyway I was glad to leave. Upon my returns from my travels, I met up.with her and omg she looks anorexic! And there was mullerlight yogurt in her fridge. It really effects me as I just feel suffocated and irritated she didn't ever even ask me what I did to.lose weight. She pretended it didn't happen. Another thong I Just thought of was when I had my interview with her, I told how.much I wanted to do make-up she even said she would look into getting me make-up in the salon (she never dud) oh but a year on she out herself on a make-up course which cost £300 she only just started applying her own. And she didn't even.invite.me.
She even got one of her new friends (she only just.met) to check up on me when she was in holiday. Wtf??? I had been working there years! What a joke.
She still msgs now to.meet up. I can't bring myself to do it. I feel annoyed.
Am I right to feel like this? What would you do?
Would you ever need to get a professional reference from her?
Liz
Clinical Research Associate
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