Weird friends attitude
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|Wed, 09-26-2012 - 9:29pm|
I have felt very lonely this last years and started to making some new friends. I have a neighbor with whom I have a lot in common. We like movies, are curious about cultural stuff and both are divorced. She sometimes invites me to watch a movie at her place.
But there are things I don´t like about her. It has been two times that she gets mad (once she slapped on the table) if I don´t agree with her or have a different opinion. One time it was about Lady DI´s death and another was about illegal.( Is that that important to get mad?)
She also sometimes starts talking and talking and no one can stop her. If I want to watch someone talking and talking, I rather choose a TV program of my interest and watch someone talk about an issue, but also sometimes the closeness of a person is something I need.
I want to keep the good in her and block the bad on her. But the thing of getting mad about something is always unexpected. I need to have all kind of resurces to handle her.
Because of being lonely I have previously engaged in friendships that were not good to me.
What do you think? Isn't´t she weird? What would you do?
Am I being passive?
Thanks in advance!