Ever worry?!?

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Registered: 09-14-2008
Ever worry?!?
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Thu, 09-27-2012 - 4:47pm
I am an over thinker by nature. And I Remeber being pregnant with DD and wondering everyday if things were going okay "in there". And when I finally saw that sweet little flicker on the ultrasound at 9 weeks I was sooo relieved!!

Anyone feeling this way!? Nervous or anxiousowing know what's going on "in there".

I just want to know I am not alone. I have no history of loss or infertility so I dot have a huge history to cause me to worry but I want this baby so much that I do :/

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Registered: 06-03-2008
Thu, 09-27-2012 - 8:16pm

I worry all the time.  I've never m/c.    I started scantily, spotting today and I still don't have a 1st appt. scheduled.  So frustrating.  I *should* receive a call tomorrow to see if the Dr. can see me in the next 3 weeks and then the rest of the pregnancy.

I spotted early last pregnancy and that was a case of spontaneous abortion of one.  If there's only one and I'm spotting, that makes me worried.

Lilypie Trying to Conceive 15 to 80 day cycle tickers
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Registered: 04-13-2005
Thu, 09-27-2012 - 8:26pm

I'm trying to fight those feelings of worry as we speak.  I've had 2 m/c and because of those, the first twelve weeks are excruciating.  As much as I convince myself that this time I will have a healthy baby come May, those feelings tend to lurk in the back of my mind.  I am quite sure once I see a heartbeat I will be able to breathe a sigh of relief. 

 

I think it's pretty normal to feel anxiety about the whole thing.  Like you said, you want it so bad that you can't help but to worry that everything is OK.

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Registered: 09-14-2008
Thu, 09-27-2012 - 10:35pm
Yeah when I saw dd heartbeat flicker a thousand pounds were lifted!!!

I can't wait for the next 3 weeks to fly by so I can see this babies flicker!!

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Registered: 01-07-2006
Fri, 09-28-2012 - 7:31pm

I worry incessantly, but I've had 2 losses this year. I wish I was further along, so I could get some helpful information, see a heartbeat, something!

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Registered: 12-16-2007
Fri, 09-28-2012 - 8:33pm

Yes! Im worring and wondering if things are okay in there. We didn't see the heartbeat at my checkup on 6 weeks 3 days (which is a little early anyway, but some people do see the heartbeat) so I'm worried about that and just praying that I'll see it for my 8 week 3 day checkup on October 9th! My morning sickness has tapered off some and I feel pretty normal most of the time.

*AUBREY* --- Mommy to Kadin, born on December 3rd 2007 & Korbin, born May 20th 2013!

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Registered: 10-04-2012
Sun, 10-07-2012 - 10:53pm
Yep. I am a mess of worry right now. First pregnancy, no previous losses, but I worry because I know so many people who have experienced loss.

I have two weeks until my first appt and the wait is excruciating.
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Registered: 10-01-2012
Wed, 10-10-2012 - 4:08pm

Definitely.  I never feel completely comfortable until I can feel hourly kicks.