Need help! Ex wants me back but is it to late?
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|Sat, 09-29-2012 - 10:44am|
This is one of the hardest things I ever had to face. I was with my ex for 5 months and living in her apartment for 4 days a week. We were totally in love. I'm 35 and she's 25. We fought and had our problems and both of us are to blame. But she dumped me hardcore for another guy. I was devasted and crushed and I left her alone and tried to move on with my life.
7 weeks go by and she asks me if I still love her? If I want to be with her? I closed those feelings but would still be open to working things out. Only problem now is that she is pregnant with this new guy's baby. I talked to her for hours on the phone and she says she misses me and wants me and I am the one for her. She wants to make it work.
What do I do now? This new guy is not going to be happy that his new girlfriend left him after 7 weeks with his baby. Now, I'm stuck in the drama of her, him and a baby that is not mine. But she loves me and I love her. But again, the problems and drama are to huge to overcome.
The same thing happened to my friend and the minute the baby was born, her boyfriend left her for a "one-night-Stand" girl. Please give me credible and sound advice so I don't make a mistake. My heart has no protectection or security in this matter. I could get hurt again if I allow myself. Thoughts?