9 months NC today

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Registered: 06-24-2011
9 months NC today
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Sun, 09-30-2012 - 3:04pm
If I can do it, you can do it!

That is all :smileyhappy:

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Registered: 05-31-2010
Mon, 10-01-2012 - 4:46pm
At the end xAP and I had one more, "we're focusing on our marriages but we'll always be friends" flurry of emails. That time, he pissed me off, too. As you know, I struggle with the loss of friendship issue. What kind of friendship can it be when we have to talk behind our spouses back and it just hurts anyway? Proud of you for getting this far.
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Registered: 04-01-2011
Mon, 10-01-2012 - 5:09pm
Proud of you too Rainie.

I think you are amazing.

((Love))

Yellow xx

"Not until we are lost do we begin to understand ourselves." ~Henry David Thoreau~

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Registered: 12-13-2010
Mon, 10-01-2012 - 5:47pm

What kind of friendship can it be when we have to talk behind our spouses back and it just hurts anyway?

EXACTLY!!!!!  Totally right on.  My XAP has always gone down that "I'll alway love you but I know that you can't leave your spouse, so therefore, I won't leave mine.  But I'll always love you."  

That's what I cannot stomach.

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Registered: 05-31-2010
Mon, 10-01-2012 - 6:10pm
The version said to me was "if I can't have you, why would I leave?" This from someone I knew would never leave. I actually had it easy because I never had to think about leaving my M. My emotions for this guy really got in the way of rational thought. I know I'm not out of the fog yet. One day at a time.
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Registered: 06-22-2011
Tue, 10-02-2012 - 1:30pm

Congrats, Sweets.  Love ya!

Lu

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Registered: 04-24-2011
Tue, 10-09-2012 - 10:07am
Hey girlfriend!!!!

SO VERY PROUD OF YOU!!!!!

((((((((((hugs))))))))))

p
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Registered: 07-24-2005
Tue, 10-09-2012 - 1:06pm

Hi luluellis :smileyhappy:

You can't just pop your pretty little head up, and in, without getting snatched!  Let us know how you are doing.  And I've always wanted to mention how much I love your picture.  That's us...precious seedlings that need to be nutured to grow and blossom into real beauties. 

That goes for you as well, Ms. Daisy :smileywink:

((hugs))

Clarity


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