BFN ;-(

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Registered: 06-05-2012
BFN ;-(
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Mon, 10-01-2012 - 3:34pm

A BFN this morning.... :-( 

Why does it hurt so much? I feel so bad that it does because I'm already a mum to a gorgeous little boy (20 months) and I know I'm so blessed. I feel so lucky and I am so lucky. I'm 40 and been trying to conceive for over a year now..... I know some people have been trying much longer than that so that also makes me feel guilty that I feel this way. 

There are benefits of course to not going back to sleepless nights but however much I rationalise, the truth is it hurts. I can tell myself whatever I like but the truth is I'd love another child.

And I know so many of you reading this will understand that so well. 

Helen x

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Registered: 03-28-2010
Mon, 10-01-2012 - 5:16pm

awwww, hugs, my girl!

don't give up, you have one beautiful child & you can have another!  :heart:

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Registered: 03-28-2010
Mon, 10-01-2012 - 8:43pm

I forgot to ask! how many dpo are you?

If you tested before 15 dpo, it could be a false negative.....if AF doesn't arrive, test again.  :smileywink:

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Registered: 04-21-2010
Fri, 10-05-2012 - 11:20am

Helen, I'm so sorry about the BFN. They are very hard to except and get over whether you have no children or 10 children. Don't feel guilty for wanting to add to your family. Hoping you are having brighter days soon. Sending lots of (((HUGS))) to you.

Vickie

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