Blighted ovum or something....

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Blighted ovum or something....
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Tue, 10-02-2012 - 9:28pm

7.3 weeks today and went to the doc for u/s - showed no growth since last week and no hb :smileysad: just hearbroken!!!  DH is so wonderful, said "I didn't marry you so you could make me a baby, I married you because I love you, baby or not".  With 2 M/C at around the same time OB thinks it's chromosomal, we knew the other one was, and I'm sure it's due to my age.  Told DH if he really wants to give it 1 last shot, we'll have to do IVF with PGD, and even then there's a chance that none of them will be good/healthy.

Now I get to either wait it out or take the meds to induce the M/C.  D&C wasn't totally covered by insurance so I'm still paying off the one in Feb and don't want to go into more debt...

Sucky day!

Mel

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Wed, 10-03-2012 - 8:01am

I am sorry!  :smileysad:  I have 2 losses, in a row too....not fun! Prayers for you, for a sense of peace, at this time.  :heart:

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Wed, 10-03-2012 - 6:23pm

so sorry to hear! ((hugs)) to you mel.

~monica

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Thu, 10-04-2012 - 3:35pm

Oh Mel..... there are no words.....  I am so sorry.....   H x

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Fri, 10-05-2012 - 11:16am

Mel, I am so sorry you have to go thru this. My heart breaks for you.  I am glad to hear you have such a supportive hubby and I'm sending prayers for you both to get through this trying time. Lots of (((HUGS))) to you.

Vickie

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Wed, 10-10-2012 - 12:45pm
I am so sorry praying for your healing and comfort.....
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Sat, 10-13-2012 - 12:18am

I'm so sorry Mel.  I know no words can take away the pain of the loss of your baby, but please know we are here and we understand your sadness:smileysad:  I'll be praying for comfort for you and your DH (he sounds like a wonderful man!).

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Wed, 10-31-2012 - 1:00pm

I don't feel much these days since I am currently going through my own miscarriage.  Sounds like our ultrasounds were the same.  Horrifying.

Know that I am thinking of you - I wish I could be more supportive, but know that I am crying for us both.  Luckily, it sounds like we also have wonderful husbands - who truly love us.

Nina, mc at 8 weeks, October 29, 2012, mc at 4.5 weeks on January 12,  staying positive and third times's a charm???