Because I Know No Boundaries...Might Be TMI

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Because I Know No Boundaries...Might Be TMI
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Thu, 10-04-2012 - 10:43am

Who is still having sex on a regular basis?

I wouldn't go right to "regular basis" around here.  Mostly, I'm just trying to be nice to DH because he's been doing SO MUCH around the house at night for me and I know it's important to him.  Given our recent grievances about the sizes of our bellies and our level of discomfort, I'm sure I'm not the only one who wishes that the ol' sex drive would put it in park for a while. 

Even though I'm "being nice", I can't say I'm not enjoying it.  But there is a fine line between "enjoying it" and "OMG, HURRY UP ALREADY."  It's awkward and I'm huge. 

How about y'all?

Jules - Happily married and Momma to DS, DD and expecting our Caboose Baby 11/24/2012


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Sun, 10-07-2012 - 9:55am

No doubt! I just don't have creativity AT ALL! My poor husband, lol!

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Fri, 10-05-2012 - 7:49pm
Poor Katie!! All of that creativity is going to WASTE!!!

Jules - Happily married and Momma to DS, DD and expecting our Caboose Baby 11/24/2012


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Fri, 10-05-2012 - 7:34pm

Yeah I am on permanent pelvic rest until December (need to let everything heal after as well). It has not hurt our "sex" life though because there is always foreplay for him in the shower :smileywink: 

Another position people might want to try is you sitting on the counter leaning back a little and have him standing (I find bathroom counters perfect for this one). Oh and don't forget the step stool and possibly pillows for your back! 

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Fri, 10-05-2012 - 5:19pm

You remembered! Lol!

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Fri, 10-05-2012 - 5:06pm
Pregnancy and memory don't really work well togethor :smileyhappy:
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Fri, 10-05-2012 - 4:41pm

Oooooohhhh! I forgot that's why she was on pelvic rest! You'd think I'd remember the details since there are so few of us. Yep that would definitely be grounds for pelvic rest :smileysad: 

 

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Fri, 10-05-2012 - 3:59pm
Glad I could help some ones sex life - I researched it months ago but have yet to try it out. Tonight is the last night before dh's nan comes for a 9 day visit so if not tonight it will wait at least another week.

Elwing_6284 / Katie will likely be on permanent pelvic rest until her section because of placenta previa :smileysad:
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Fri, 10-05-2012 - 3:43pm
We have been trying to a lot lately. With my 1st pegnancy we didn't very much bc I was afrid to and dh was weird about the belly. This time I reminded him that if he thinks we are done having kids, this is his last chance to have sex without condoms. So, we have been dtd a few times a week now. I tried to lay in the bed for as long as I could to let his sperm ripen my cervix with my 1st. It's a little to early for me to start that with this one. Once I am closer to my due date I will sit and "marinate" lol. We were spooning for a while, but that has gotten uncomfortable for me and just doesn't feel good to me anymore so it's just doggie style from now on. Tried reverse cowgirl a few months back, but it wasn't comfortable and I almost broke dh's penis lol
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Fri, 10-05-2012 - 9:52am

Tabatha! That totally works! Can't believe I didn't think about it myself... I'd seriously just sit here and think about ways to make it happen with no luck :smileyvery-happy:

 

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Fri, 10-05-2012 - 9:45am
elwing_6284 wrote:

I'm not because of doctors orders:smileysad:.

Well, he should be lifting that pretty soon, right? 

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