Because I Know No Boundaries...Might Be TMI

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Registered: 09-22-2001
Because I Know No Boundaries...Might Be TMI
Thu, 10-04-2012 - 10:43am

Who is still having sex on a regular basis?

I wouldn't go right to "regular basis" around here.  Mostly, I'm just trying to be nice to DH because he's been doing SO MUCH around the house at night for me and I know it's important to him.  Given our recent grievances about the sizes of our bellies and our level of discomfort, I'm sure I'm not the only one who wishes that the ol' sex drive would put it in park for a while. 

Even though I'm "being nice", I can't say I'm not enjoying it.  But there is a fine line between "enjoying it" and "OMG, HURRY UP ALREADY."  It's awkward and I'm huge. 

How about y'all?

Jules - Happily married and Momma to DS, DD and expecting our Caboose Baby 11/24/2012


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Thu, 10-04-2012 - 12:32pm

We are still doing it several times a week... BUT... sometimes I do get the "Hurry up already!!!" thought in my head. I feel like we have only been able to do one position for so long, that im tired of doing it, DH has no where to put his hands anymore lol I fight to keep the blanket over my WHOLE body, cause I dont want to see anything jiggling that aint suppose to! Its just getting to hard to do, but we still try.

My husband works a lot and is tired a lot by the time we get dont doing everything we gotta do in a day, I am secretly happy sometimes when he falls asleep as soon as we get in bed! SHHH! Dont tell him! lol

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Registered: 10-12-2007
Thu, 10-04-2012 - 12:22pm


Yes, we still are, but it's sooooo awkward! Seriously, there's no "great" position. I'd like to amp things up a little to take advantage of those prostaglandins, but even the hubby is a little discouraged by the size of my belly. I've even tried to google best positions, and I'm too big now for ALL of them, and it's only going downhill frome here, I'm afraid.

My doctor gave us the go ahead to have sex to get things moving (even though he said it wasn't medically proven), and my poor, deflated husband just walked out of there with a green light to have all the sex he wants, knowing good and well the pickin's were slim.

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