What am I? Gay or bi?
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|Fri, 10-05-2012 - 11:30pm|
Hi. I have two questions. 1, I have always been confused about my sexuality. I am 53. When I fantasize about the sex act, it's with a man, but only the sex itself. No kissing or affection. When the act is over, I fantasize about being with a woman, as far as kissing, and emotional intimacy. Does this mean I'm bi or gay? My second question is, what is it when you are emotionally, mentally, and initimacy-wise attracted to a person, but not physically attracted to them?
I became involved in an online relationship with another woman. It was intimate, and we fell in love. Long story short, it ended. Even though it was intimate emotionally, I was never really physically attracted to her. Is it possible to fall in love with someone and not be physically attracted? Has anyone else experienced this?