Women watching porn too much is bad too

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Registered: 12-14-2008
Women watching porn too much is bad too
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Sat, 10-06-2012 - 1:24am
I get wet for a porn clip more than my boyfriend. Porn is only good for getting ideas. But to use it as a trigger for getting horny or an orgasm is wrong.

What do you think?
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Registered: 04-16-2008
Sat, 10-06-2012 - 12:05pm

There is nothing right or wrong in a relationship (barring abuse, or anything illegal such as sexual acts with minors, etc).  Whatever works for the parties involved, and whatever feels right to them, is right.  Simple as that.

If porn excites you more than your boyfriend, then perhaps there is something wrong between you and your boyfriend.  You cannot, however, generalized that it is bad for women to watch "too much"  (who decides what is "too much, anyway?) porn and it should be used.

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Registered: 12-05-2010

confident_resilient wrote:
I get wet for a porn clip more than my boyfriend. Porn is only good for getting ideas. But to use it as a trigger for getting horny or an orgasm is wrong.

What do you think?

If you watch all the time (hours daily), that's not good. If you can only have sex with your partner after watching porn, that's not good either.

However, if neither of the above applies, I wouldn't get worried or bothered---especially if your partner is happy to watch porn with you and/or doesn't have a problem with you looking at erotica.

 

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Registered: 01-25-2010

Hi  Welcome to the board.

     There is nothing wrong with erotica.  Porn can start the process of becoming aroused.  There is nothing wrong with starting your engine.

Goldfish

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Registered: 08-09-2012

I think you're wrong.