Too much work!

Community Leader
Registered: 09-21-2007
Too much work!
Mon, 10-08-2012 - 6:59pm
A's are an awful lot of work!!! Lol. Yet I still do it!

For example, I have to watch my phone, as to not be obvious, and certainly not leave it around. I waste too much energy thinking about and wanting ap. I have to lie on the nights I meet ap. the lie has to be good, or I risk getting caught. When I see ap,, omg, it takes too long to get ready. Lol. I could go on forever....

I know some of you would agree!!!!


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Registered: 03-08-2011
Mon, 10-08-2012 - 8:11pm

Oh yes, I know what you mean.  Although my AP has seen me without make-up, hung-over--not looking my best.  When we do have a rendezvous, there is quite a lot of "getting ready".  He is attractive to me, but not what you would say "classically attractive".  I'm pretty attractive, but getting old, like we all are.  I always want to look my best and put forth a lot of effort.  I don't think he cares though, which makes me feel wonderful.  He makes me feel beautiful no matter what.