Married but have feelings for another..
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|Mon, 10-08-2012 - 10:52pm|
I will try to make this as short as possible..
I recently got married, months leading up to my marriage I started having feelings for someone else. I thought okay whataever this is normal, cold feet, etc... Well now I am married and I still have feelings for this person... I know he has feelings for me too, just be the way he behaves around me (always there for me, cares, never says no to me, subtle complements, stands close to me)... Never once have either of us expressed our feelings for each other..
This man and I finish each other's sentences, we see things very similarly.. When we disagree and argue, we come back together after a while and make things work... We bicker for fun quite a bit... Idk if it makes sense but I think we enjoy play-fighting/bickering
At the same time we are very different people, but our differences are more so with hobbies and things... But also, we appreciate each others likes/dislikes...
I know you may think I am having an affair, but I am not... I am trying to be happy with my husband, but I know for a fact that me and him never connected in this way... Also, lately he's been trying to tell me that now that we are married I have to do things differently than before and it's getting on my nerves that he won't listen to me when I tell him I'm sad or upset.. It's like he just takes it in one ear and out the other...
I'm afraid my marriage is already doomed.. Idk what to do, it's not like I'd make a pass at this other guy if things did not work out b/w me and my husband... And it would take a lot more than this for me to end a marriage.. Help!