does my friend want to eff or is she teasing me?
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Tue, 10-09-2012 - 12:01am |
ok my friend/coworker and I recently started to hang out and we are getting kinda close. we spend every weekend together and whenever we see each other at work we go to the bathroom and talk (we are on opposite shifts). when we first started texting, things were pretty PG rated and light hearted. Now the texts are extremely flirtatious and sexual. She straight up texted me to eat her out about 3 times. Idk whether she's being serious or not, but she says sexual stuff like this all the time. But, whenI say something sexual back, she acts all uncomfortable, but only sometimes. She recently had a really bad break up with a guy we worked with and ever since then, she hasn't really hung out with anyone or had sex with anyone, so I'm starting to feel like she wants to have sex with me to tide her over. She says she straight but she asked me if I thought she was gay when I first met her, out of the blue. Then last night i went to her house to watch movies and after the movies were over she randomly decided to watch porn o_O....2 of them. And every time any girl on girl stuff would come on she would comment on how she liked or disliked the girls' bodies. Then she asked me if I was hot, and i said yes so she told me to take my pants off....lol at that point I was thinking, yes this chick wants to mess around. I think she wants to eff but she doesn't want to make the first move because was dropping a lot of hints last night but nothing happened.
Regardless of whether she is wanting you to do things w/ her sexually or not, my first and biggest concern is that she is a co-worker!  That can stir up some bad stuff at work should things go south (and not in a good way!) and backfire in you and her's friendship. Since her breakup was bad w/ her ex-male partner, you could very well be a "rebound" and she is needing that attention that she desires.
On a fun note.......being a guy, if a friend of mine and I were hanging out and he decided to control the situation and start watching porn, especially guy/guy, that would be a very hard (no pun intended) hint that he wants to mess around, and if I were sexually interested, the clothes would be flying off.
Just be careful about whatever you decide. If you do decide to have sex w/ her, I would ensure some ground rules are established, and that work is work and play is play, and they do NOT cross each other.   Hope this helps!
and i'm glad you also think that the porn thing was a definite hint being dropped. I'm just making sure i'm not reading too deeply into it.
It was my pleasure. If you dont mind, keep us (or at least me!) up to date on how things go; good, bad or indifferent.
Any update?
Sounds like she is a tease who doesn't know what she wants to do.