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|Tue, 10-09-2012 - 12:13am|
I mentioned in a previous post that since starting my A, my husband has been more attentive. After I (rightly) got my head into perspective about my relationship with AP, now HE is showing more emotion and attentiveness in his emails! He emailed me like ten times today, long past the hour when he normally stops for the afternoon. And, he emailed twice last night while I was sleeping, asking if I was awake. Normally, he just emails a goodnight email once and if I don't respond (I didn't last night, because I was already asleep), he doesn't try again. I email the next morning, and that's it. But he keeps reaching out way more than normal.
It doesn't phase me, I'm still keeping this all very in-check. But I find it interesting that the minute you pull away (even if you think it's just in your own head - I didn't tell him my perspective changed), men chase. Why didn't I figure this out when I was single? Could have saved me a bunch of heartache.
I don't know...just some random observations I guess. This is still all new to me, and I wonder if you all experience this. It's still hard to keep it all in perspective, I won't lie - especially when he is seemingly pulling me in - but I'm holding strong. He's just a fun toy. A distraction. It is fun, I will admit. I haven't had this much male attention in a decade!