Should I be worried?
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|Tue, 10-09-2012 - 3:41am|
So, a refresher: my AP's wife had their baby 2.5 weeks ago. Every day we've texted but we haven't talked on the phone, Skype or met up in person since. And in fact, he hasn't even mentioned the baby or the baby's name... even though we text every day (which for some reason has bothered me because uh... that's a HUGE part of his life.)
I started to feel kind of frustrated about the lack of even a phone call (okay yes, I know I am being totally selfish... but what the hell) so yesterday I finally laid it out for him and said I'm hurt by it given his insistence that he'd make time. He was really sweet and was like, "I love you. I miss you. I am just totally out of my mind exhausted. But you have my heart and are constantly in my thoughts."
Yes, they just had a baby. Also his work life is insane. BUT I am the kind of person who would find time for someone I was crazy about. I just would.
So, Thursday will be 3 weeks... and I've read a bunch of posts lately on here talking about guys pulling away, yadda yadda... and I'm wondering if that is what's going on. Is it because we're so serious and now it's not fun to chase me? I explicitly asked him if having spent so much time with his family & friends in the past couple weeks if that changed his perspective and he said no.
Anyway. Should I be worried? Or am I just totally out of line in terms of expectations? (I'm having one of those over-thinking everything moments and need some outside perspective either way.)