low sex drive?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2011
low sex drive?
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Fri, 10-12-2012 - 5:34am

Hello im new here. my bf and i are 14 years apart and we havent had sex in months. im not sure if his drive is lower than mine. its really frustrating! i need some advice on how to spice things up. im so upset im thinking he doesnt want anything to do with me. im not leaving and hes not cheating. theres got to be something we can do. any advice please.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2012
Tue, 12-11-2012 - 8:37pm
What do you do in the evening? Does he ever get hard or do you not know becase he doen'st share his body? Maybe you should just grab his thing, put it in your mouth and see if he responds in any way. If not, I think yiu will find out what you need to know, but only if he puts his tongue in your thing as well.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2012
Tue, 11-13-2012 - 1:57pm

Hi, Jami. Finally a woman complaining about not getting enough. How old are both of you and how long have you been together? Did you have a pretty active sex life prior to this dry spell? And how is your relationship otherwise?