Need help deciphering male talk....
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|Sat, 10-13-2012 - 10:24am|
I really, really don't get men! They seem to be from this far away universe sometimes, lol. Long story short, this guy I've been non-seriously seeing for a while tells me I shouldn't be embarrassed about my body (I had wanted to dim the lights) because I'm beatuiful. To which I responded, "me? you think that?". And he said, "yes, isn't it obvious? I get so easily excited when I see you. You're cute, smart...". Now, I don't know what he meant by this? Men, can you help me figure it out? I should have asked at the moment but didn't. I might bring it up next time I see him. But I know he has commitment issues (had a challenging divorce and has been divorced for 1 year) and so I don't want to sound like I'm pushing him to commit or something, kwim? He later told me there is nothing hideous or unattractive about me (I'm very self-conscious about my stomach in particular). This guy, from what I can tell from his non-verbal cues, is into me. He stares at me intensely, maintains eye contact, likes to be close to me - hugging, touching arm, leaning head on shoulder, etc. But I just don't get him. Thanks in advance.