I'm ready to not be angry but HOW?
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|Sun, 10-14-2012 - 5:16pm|
well my divorce was fast and furious. He was having an affair and there was no working on our relationship...not from my end but his. He told me he was unhappy and here it is less than a year, and on Wednesday I will wake up a single woman. My thing is though I'm tired of being angry. I'm by nature a sarcastic/witty person and I like that side of my but I've taken on an edge lately that I'm not fond of. I know I'm busier and stressed but I don't want to be that angry divorcee. I'm ready to not be angry, but does that mean I forgive him...let him off the hook? How do I do that to a man that left without a warning or a fighting chance...a man that left his children (even though he says he didn't). Does that mean I forgive her and welcome her into my kids life? For those of you that have moved past your anger, what did that mean to you and how did you do that?