Unconditional Trust and Acceptance
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|Sun, 10-14-2012 - 6:20pm|
I need help understanding this. I don't think it's a bad thing, but it's freaking me out.
This guy I've been involved with (we're in our late 30's btw), he and I both are not the type of people that trust/accept easily at all. In fact, I've never trusted anyone fully and he only trusts one person in his life. But we trust each other unconditionally. I know that sounds bogus, but it's not. Things that would typically bother me, don't. Ditto for him.
With that trust came acceptance. He's had a shady past but I accept everything and am okay with it all. Truly. I even asked him about something recently, of course he answered honestly and if it was any other man, I would have ran for the hills, but because it's him, I accepted it, dealt with it, and moved on.
It's the weirdest thing for both of us to trust and accept like this and yet, it's made our relationship that much better (it's nice being able to be 100% open and honest and trust someone). I swear I keep thinking he's playing me, but since he's said a lot of this before I did, and then some, I don't think it's a game.
My friend has told me to do this or that, to tell him this or that, that I'm giving it all up too soon (emotionally), but the funny thing is that I can't seem to lie to him. I don't want to lie to him or play games. And he feels the same.
Are we just super lucky or super crazy?