3 birthdays through this and still not over
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|Mon, 10-15-2012 - 10:48am|
Tomorrow I turn 37. This will be my 3rd birthday celebrated while "going through" a divorce. I remember turning 35, just 2 months after filing. I had no idea how things would play out. We had no debt, owned our home outright. No car payments. When I turned 36 I thought for sure things would be resolved in another year's time. I was wrong. Now I am 37, with about 50K in debt, and still married...
My wish for this year is that things will resolve and that I will be okay no matter the outcome. I hope for a home so that my children and I are no longer renting in an apartment we can't afford. I hope things are done so that I can move on, and that my new relationship can progress. I have a great guy now, but he is datiing a still married woman-me,- albeit seperated for 3 years.
I also will try to focus on the few positives. Like my health improving. My children are healthy, and doing well despite it all and are with me most of the time now. My pets, and my great guy. The good is what keeps me sane