new here and need help on 12yo and porn?

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Registered: 07-31-2008
new here and need help on 12yo and porn?
Mon, 10-15-2012 - 1:15pm


     Really hoping I can find some suggestion here as I am at the end of my rope, I have been on other boards with my youngest (hypotonia, feeding boards) and have found them very helpful so just taking a shot in the dark here.

  I have a 12 you son who I have been having a hard time with for about 1 1/2 years and watching porn on the computer, I POD, etc. I have taken all devices away - he "needed" to use the computer last week for a homework assignment and today found that once again he had been looking at pornography! I am at the end of my rope! Has anyone experienced this with there kids? He obviously has no respect for me and our rules but I just don't know what to do? Counseling? Could he be addicted at this age? He is such a nice child except for this area!! Just looking for anyone that may have been through something similar and what they did to stop it. I have grounded him numerous times, taken away everything and nothing seems to help!

Thank you for reading :smileysad: