Spankings

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Registered: 12-31-1969
Spankings
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Mon, 10-15-2012 - 3:16pm

How do you feel using spankings as a sexual turn-on? Do you prefer giving or receiving. Does your husband have a favorite outfit he likes to see you in?

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Registered: 08-01-2006
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Thu, 10-18-2012 - 10:37am

Not something that interests me.



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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2006
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Thu, 10-18-2012 - 10:37am

Not something that interests me.



28999825.jpg picture by nhgal2006

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Registered: 09-27-2005
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Sat, 10-20-2012 - 9:16am

I am not really into spankins, but to maybe be lightly spanked, would work for me.  I read a BDSM story where the woman spanked/slapped the mans butt. After a few swats she would give him oral sex, then she would spank/slap a bit harder.Then return to giving him oral sex. The story went on to where the mans butt stinged from her mutiple swats, then she would rub the sting away, and retrun to giving him oral.  As the story went on somehow she was able to swat his butt at the same time she was givng him oral. The pain, excitement of the sting and pleasure finally got him off.

Sounds exciting to me


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Registered: 10-24-2012
In reply to: BeegeBeege
Wed, 10-24-2012 - 4:45pm

What is best? Hand? Paddle?

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Registered: 10-11-2011
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Tue, 10-30-2012 - 1:57pm

keep yourself anonymous

dont   expect responses

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Registered: 11-01-2012
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Thu, 11-01-2012 - 1:53pm

Seeing that no one here has any imagination for this kind of thing, let me put in my two cents worth. When I was married, after seeing all sorts of signs, I got my husband to admit that this topic got him excited. He said he would enjoy watching this. After a few experiences with porn sites and a great deal of talking, we gradually realized what he wanted most of all was, not to do it himself, but to see me over the knees of another woman. Not to go into the ins-and-outs of all the details of how we went about it, but eventually we found just the right person. The difficulty was always "the scenario." It had to be satisfactory for all three of us. I rather enjoyed seeing the others so extremely excited and discovered in myself I was quite capable of "taking it to the limit." That had been the trouble all along, he not wanting to admit what exactly he wanted done to me nor that he himself --always upright and dutiful--would enjoy a "threesome." I confess I felt jealous, of course, at being treated like the underdog. 

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Registered: 11-18-2012
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Thu, 11-22-2012 - 1:07pm

I don't know if its something my husband would be into but it is something that I have considered. I would say that the use of the hand is appropriate for play. Both partners have to be willing or its no fun and it will only cause more problems. 

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Registered: 11-21-2012
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Mon, 11-26-2012 - 7:54am

My husband is my master and he gives me the spankings with a whip I love it when I get spanked.  I do bad things just so I can get spanked, but if another man wanted to control me I would love to be spanked, and my husband loves me to dress up as a nurse, slave, or anything sexy just so that my cunt is showing and he can get to my tites.  I have to say those words I am under orders at all times by him, and I like that and I think all women should were items that men can get to them easy not working that is our job to work and pleasure them.

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Registered: 09-12-2011
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Thu, 12-13-2012 - 2:25pm

my husband likes to get spanked

so sometimes i play the role and sexually satisfy him

its fun, intense,multiple cummings