Can I get your advice plz?

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Registered: 01-11-2005
Can I get your advice plz?
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Sun, 07-30-2006 - 9:17pm
I recently moved about a year ago b/c me and my boyfriend bought our first house together. Now im far away from friends and family so i don't get to see them as much. So me and him jsut grew closer and as we all know just grew on each others nerves a little. (lol). I also just picked up a great professional career, but am always looking for what i want to do. I do seem a little overwhelmed and he thinks thats crazy. Do you think so? Also he just started a new job and he doesnt get home until 1am or later so i am stuck at home with no one to talk to and im starting to get a little, ok well very lonely. Is that normal and do you have any ideas on how i should meet some new friends either in the area or just to talk to? Not to mention I live in a small town so they dont have like groups or anything like that. I don't care for bars or clubs. also some nights I dont even get home until 10pm. Please Help me!!!!!!!!
-Christy
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sun, 07-30-2006 - 11:06pm
Hi Christy,
Long time no see ..
Sorry to hear you're so alone there ..
Try the library they have different kinds of groups or clubs there.
You'll be able to meet more people you're own age.
What about where you work?
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Registered: 09-12-2003
Mon, 07-31-2006 - 1:38am

Hi Christy, it's nice to see you again.


I can relate to what you are saying because we are in the process of relocating to a foreign country and I don't (didn't ) know a soul and I don't work so I don't have the opportunity to meet people at work and then there is the language....

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Registered: 01-11-2005
Mon, 07-31-2006 - 11:23pm
Thank you all so much for your suggestions. i will deffently have to try them. I have been working at my job which is a jewerly store for about a year now. and we will have had our house for a year in october. its fun and deffently a change. I graduated high school in june of '05. so all my friends kinda moved including me. which stinks. lol. It is great talking to you guys!!! i will deffently be on here more, may be late but i will be here.
Christy <3
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Registered: 09-12-2003
Tue, 08-01-2006 - 2:57am
Hi Christy,,,, so just graduated HS, well, then it is a particularly volitile time because we have been with our hs friends for at least what...4-5 yrs, maybe more.... then blip everyone is off to collegetown or working or whatever.