My turn-some Wednesday whine !!!

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My turn-some Wednesday whine !!!
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Wed, 10-18-2006 - 9:41am

Urghhh- my day got of to a very annoying start !!  As you all know I take my FIL on Wednesday- (he has Alzhiemers), the last 2 weeks my dear SIL took over my day(she took off work- to do so) So today, I got up early- to a dismal, rainy day, I really was'nt up to it- but off I went (7:00am), I turned into thier street, saw my SIL's car (that lives right next door to me) & other SIL's car (whom FIL lives with & I don't talk to) I said to myself-- ARE YOU SHI--ING ME !!  I whipped my car around & went home w/ blood pressure sky high!


I rambled to DH- I realize that they are trying to ease the load off for me--- BUT don't ya think somebody- anybody out of this family of 12- would have called to tell ME- what THIER plan was!


Is it me & my off the wall thyroid hormones or does this sound weird to anybody else. Especially the unique SIL that lives right next door- the one that never even called me since the day I had the surgery- to see if I needed anything or just check to see if I was dead or alive !!!  urghhh  I WILL call over there later & ask what the heck is the plan from now on-  But I want to calm down first !!!!


urghhh---- grumble- grumble ! sorry if this does not make sense to anyone ! Just had to vent ! Now I am gonna call my DD's- they are on my side w/ thier aunt !

BUNNY


Gramma to Matthew, Cameron &  Catherine

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Wed, 10-18-2006 - 1:27pm

Bunny,


That does sound weird...and kind of rude of them not to call you and tell you they were going to watch your FIL today.

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Registered: 09-12-2003
Wed, 10-18-2006 - 1:40pm
I most certainly do understand
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Registered: 01-13-2006
Wed, 10-18-2006 - 2:35pm

((((((Bunny)))))) You have every right to be angry. That was just plain rude not to call and let you know that they were taking him. I think it's even ruder that your SIL has never called you to see how you're doing after your surgery.

I hope you get it all straightend out!

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 10-18-2006 - 4:34pm
{{{Bunny}}}
Completely understand why you feel the way you do/did ..
Why didn't any one call?
I'd say that was kind of rude :;gasp::
Hope your day got better :)


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Registered: 08-30-2004
Thu, 10-19-2006 - 1:10am
id be very angry too, that to me is very rude for them not to call and just let you know..i mean it takes what 30 seconds to do that'? big hugsss and i hope that in the future they have some respect and contact you letting you know whats up ...big hugss!


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