I need some input...

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Registered: 11-08-2004
I need some input...
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Thu, 12-21-2006 - 11:37pm

If you were to find out that your long-term BF or whatever had been looking at pictures of other women online, not porn, but pictures such as you might see on sites like myspace and buddypic, would you be okay with it?  What if he assures you it's just fantasy and not for finding/talking to/meeting someone?


Thats for any input on this.

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Heidi

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 12-22-2006 - 12:32am
Tough one heid,
Guess I would want to know why & how often.
Think it has an underlying meaning ..
That's just me ..
Will be interesting to see what others say :)



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Registered: 03-22-2005
Fri, 12-22-2006 - 12:52am

If he luvs you,why is he looking at other woman?

Von.

Von.

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Registered: 06-02-2003
Fri, 12-22-2006 - 6:56am

Hi Heidi,


If it was my DH, it would really bother me.

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Registered: 11-08-2004
Fri, 12-22-2006 - 10:11am

Hi Amber,


Will do.

Heidi

see my pet rats below?  they are so cute and sweet.

 

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Registered: 11-08-2004
Fri, 12-22-2006 - 10:13am

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Heidi

see my pet rats below?  they are so cute and sweet.

 

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Registered: 09-12-2003
Fri, 12-22-2006 - 12:55pm
WEll, I 'm with the rest of the gals... I would be OK if he were looking at photos of a movie actress or something,,, but blogs and things like that,,,, I 'm not sure...
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Registered: 08-30-2004
Fri, 12-22-2006 - 3:34pm

btdt and i know i took the low road of it all when it happened(almost 4 yrs ago) i do think its very disrespectful and did not even give him a chance to explain, i just erupted and blew up at him(i was prego at the time too)


i know i would be highly upset and i think if you bring it upon his attention how this makes you feel, then maybe he will not do it again...big hugsss...


i was told by a few male friends of mine that men are just like that, they dont think, they just do...so you have to talk and let him know it really bothers you, you are right to feel this way too..hope i make sense

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Registered: 06-30-2004
Fri, 12-22-2006 - 10:59pm

Had this issue with my DH...........


I wasn't all that upset ( confused was more like it) with him looking it's when