Have to vent..........
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| Sun, 01-28-2007 - 7:26am |
I am sooo angry, disappointed, sad, aggravated.......you get the point !
Yesterday- all day I just felt like crap, dizzy,cold sweats, stomach doing flip-flops, did not sleep at all the nite before. So I tried to do NOTHING all day- as we had my SIL's surprize 25th anniversary party. By 5:00 o'clock- I really thought I was going to pass out---I announced to DH that I don't think that I can go--told him to go pick-up DD#1- as she was going by herself.
Well, DH had a face on ..to stop a train....I asked him if he was mad that I was not going.... said he not happy at all....and"this not feeling good is getting real old" !! With that he turned & walked out the door! Needless to say- I was hysterical--how could he say that! I know he has been patient w/me & all my foolish aliments.I did say to him before he left-"How do you think I feel-- I don't like feeling like this either"! The whole neighborhood was gone & my kids were there too----I was sitting on the edge of the sofa w/phone in my hand-- in case I had to dial 911! (obviously- I did'nt) !
I am just mad at myself & DH! Why can't I feel better ! I will call Dr on Monday- as he did lower my thyroid meds------this is how I felt after the surgery--feeling like I was gonna past out at any moment! urghhhh
Well, this is gonna be a L-O-N-G day....it will be a silent one for me !
Sorry for rambling-- but I do feel abit better just writing about it---instead of milling it around in my head all nite ! urghhhhh M-E-N !! urghhh



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A women I work with had a tubal pregnancy (not sure if that's the right term) last week she had to have surgery to remove it. She told me she's in some pain and having trouble caring for their 2 yo. She told me her usually understand DH wasn't helping her and she didn't understand what was his problem. I'll tell you what I told her, sometimes I think if men can't see anything broken they don't understand it's really broken. Maybe it's that way with your DH, he doesn't mean to be insensitive he just doesn't
Aw, I'm sorry your husband was so insensitive, but I do think it's in their nature.
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Thank you Paula & Ann for your sympathy
((((( BIG hugs ))))) Bunny.
Sorry to this hon .. bet you were diappointed to not go .
Why do men behave like that?
Think I agree with the others .. if they can'r *see* the problem ..
There must not be one ::sigh::
How are you feeling today?
Sorry bunny for you being sick and having to deal with an insensitive dh. My dh is the same...I broke my elbow a few years ago and in the hospital waiting to see a doctor my dh had the nerve to tell me not to worry about making dinner...like I was going to go home and cook for him with my arm in a sling....I just looked at him and walked away. Today he wakes up and asked me if his fingers look crooked because now he thinks he getting arthritis in them. I can sympathize with you about sitting with the phone in
Buny im so sorry you are not well and sorry your husband is'nt more thoughtfull.
My DH is the same,i can be crawling on my hands and knee's and he still wouldnt help.
Hope you feel better soon.
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Von.
Hi Marilyn,
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