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| Thu, 11-20-2008 - 12:05am |
Who doYou try to avoid during family holiday parties?
- Grandma
- Grandpa
- Uncle______
- Aunt______
- The Brother in Law
- The Sister in Law
- The Brother
- The Sister
- We don't have family get togethers
- Other .. please share
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I voted sister-in-law !!!
the youngest sister. everytime she is up from florida for a family gathering she starts a family feud..then slinks away.
the last was 1 1/2 years ago. noone has spoke to her since and mom thinks we owe her..hahahaha. i doubt we will see
We don't have a lot of family get togethers, since we're all pretty much spread all over now, and have no parents' house to gather in, but I said other because when we did all get together there really was no one I avoided.
And even when we get together with all dh's brothers and their families (now and then), there's no one I really avoid. I try to get along with everyone, lol. (oops, my halo is slipping, LOL!)
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Well yes you are lucky then, whew!
Has she always not showed up at yoru place ?
Always been liek that ?
Glad their is only one :)
Whose youngest sister ?
Not yours ?
That's a long time for not having seen her ..
Doesn't sound like she is too nice for starting feuds ::sigh::
LOL on your Mom .. help gotta love her no matter what :)
Well then you are very lucky really ..
So no complaining for you .. it's a good thing :)
I am fortunate in that with the various groups of family and friends that I spend holidays with, there is no one that I avoid. Everyone is very nice and all get along well. No one ever argues or causes trouble and our times together are comfortable and
I said other
I have 4 sis in laws (grants sisters), some grand daughters, and mainly 2 sil's grants brothers wives. I refer to this group(in private ) as the coven. They are total wit****. Sometimes i think they compete to sewe who can pull the worst stunts.
My family(mom, sis, and her evil daughters, and ones husband)
Grants ex, her hubby , grants son.
Now being the step mom is the hardestr thing i have EVER been....and i an sure will ever be. My s son does not speak to us at all...his mom blackened his heart to us.
Now my step daughter Janelle...Have you all ever been step moms?? well janelle likes to write me via my facebook., she knows i check it several times a day. not if i don't write here today( she wrote yesterday)...she will start something, i am sure. i am always wrong, no matter what i say and do.
Now yesterday was the christmas letter. She knows we have the 25th here and most of the boys and family come. Well she told me she will go to moms on christmas eve, and spend the night. her mopm is always considered first.
then announces that she called grants mom to find out if all is on the 26th at the hall were they live( we have almost 150 in the imediate family now). She told her we would all be getting together there...hello what if we had other plans?? so she now thinks she can commit us.The the topper...we are invited to her house on the 25th...hello??? you know the boys come here then. non of them are married or have other places to be. They hate Janelle for all she and the family(her mom and step dad included)...they will never go there.
The anounces that she has no idea what her soon to be ex is doing...so now are we supposed to wait and see on that too?? She has not mentioned her ex inlaw family either...she goes there for austins bday(27th) and stay for new years.So we go to her place and miss the boy or don't see the grandkids unless we go to my mil on the 26th.So her ex is a trucker and my be there anytime. how will she make a turkey anyway if she will be at her moms till at least noon??
then she says austins bday is the 21st this year...she thinks. well thomas' bday is the 22(he will be 18 and we are all going out), the christmas party at work is the 23rd.Janelle is 1.5 hours away and grants company is esp busy just before christmas and we need the money he will be making as the week ofchristmas is dead at work...so no money.
Besides his ex her hubby sat in the kitchen on austins last bday and b'd about us being there...how he raised the kids and he should be the only dad. now janelle insists we all be together there and whoever she catches fighting will be out. She won't do that to her mom and step dad as they babysit all week for her.Last year i was almost in tears during the party. her step dad needed his mouth closed permanantly. then her mom...she has a peace bond on her dad(grant my dh) and her mom kicked in our door and her step dad hit grant. Her mopm sat there...they see the baby sarah...now a year...almost daily...they would not pass her to us. then the statemenets that came out of her moms mouth...we can't do that again...we will be in jail, i am sure.
Then she says in the letter that she took austin to chucky cheese because he said he missed her....hello that is in the city 3 hours from her where her dh lives now. does that mean he has custody or hermom if he doesn't see him all the time??
so how about that for a long answer. now any questions on why i wanted to go away for christmas??
Now what about my aunts....i wanted to go there for the 26th...but we have to go to dh's moms now.
My kids and husband is all the family I need.
don't for get me ....your twin...Wink!
Ya me an d the kids would be good too...i wish!
did i mention grants sister sent out emails the other day....telling us what we had to send money for as a gift for grants parents. Hate those letters...i want to have a choice not told.
this year it is new pots and pans, bbq sets, knives and she says she is still looking for more. we all get stuck paying at least 100.00 a year for that...with the 11 kids too. then they had the nerve to ask the grandkids too. They told the kids they we net really part of the family before....but asked them to contribute.
what happened to justr visiting and giving if you want. i amall for suppling food for the meal as long as some of the moochers do too
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