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Thu, 12-04-2008 - 10:05am

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from: mrs.jackfrost
to: tulipabeni
date: 8:03 am

Morning All

So what is a special day/ holiday/family get together without someone pissed at me. Well not a day in my life, that is for sure!!

Thats right Janelle moved Austins bday party again. Now the 14th. She AGAIN was askinmg about christmas again. She knows we always have christmas.

So grant FINALY calls her last night. First tells her we can't come to austins bday. But instead of telling her he copuld not get time off...esp this close to christmas. No he says it is too stressful with her mom and step dad there. So her back is us right away. Her mom, she says, is coming and bringing her hubby cory weather he wants to come or not. Told him he was doing it for the kids. Well this jerk mouthed to anyone that would listen last time. Thank god grant is deaf...but i had heard it and worked at keeping them apart.We alos left early so there was no fight. I later told grant what was said...he knew there was more to it when i was so distracted later. He said he would have confronted him...so guess i did the right thing.
So then she is on about me being sick and that is the real reason....grant said partly. Thanks! Make me the fall guy!
Then she says that we don't go to the party...she will not see us for christmas. She complained about the 2 hour drive(we drive it at spead limit for abput 1 hr 20 minites.)
Then she complains that the kids hate dogs and not fond of the cat.
So grant is upset. she has christmas eve and morning with her mom and will go to her soon to be ex inlaws over 4 hours away for part of christmas.

Now we thought it would be easier us not going to the party and less stressful for everyone,Janelle esp., the poor girl that we had to give our air conditioner and upright freezer to. But she is renting the town pool and party romm bside the pool for2 hours. Not cheap! We were all to go in swim suits.Now her mom and dad talk about us in ordinary clothes being fat...can you imaging in swim suits?? Grant alsocan't swim if there is a fight.i am also called the pig and fat b__ch.Her mom calls grant pork chop or worse.

So this is our world.

Now add our adhd kittle and the ornament attacks, the tree stand leaking to a full flood and warping the hardwood, Arliss not calling yet, ...it goes on and on!

The prime minister may be over thrown, my ex's sisters lawyer sent another letter demanding i give them the kids addresses, the oilfield dieing in ressession. It is all too much.

add to that the galbladder attacks and the womans stuff here again.

Just another day calgone could not take you away from!


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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: mrs_jackfrost
Thu, 12-04-2008 - 10:21am
{{{Glenda}}}
My goodness .. never a dull moment in your life
Have missed you & thrilled to see you here, whew!
I say live & let live & forget it, LOL
No really .. you're at the point where you need to do what is best for you.
Hopefully others will join you but if not .. so be it.
Let us know how the saga goes
Oh & be sure ot get back here more often :)



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In reply to: mrs_jackfrost
Thu, 12-04-2008 - 10:36am

{{glenda}} do

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In reply to: mrs_jackfrost
Thu, 12-04-2008 - 10:39am

Thanks hugs...i will try ands show more often

Sadly i let myself get upset over all this. I miss my dad and know all those withches will be at his place drinking his wine and gloating an what they did to get rid of me. So i see and hear about the happy family get togethers and it makes me cry. Starting to get better about it though , now. Guess i just needed a good cry!!

I am thinking of putting a thinking of him momorial in the paper soon. it will be the 6 month anniversary of his passing soon.

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Registered: 03-22-2005
In reply to: mrs_jackfrost
Thu, 12-04-2008 - 10:52am

Glenda.sometimes it's best to just cut yourselfe off from certain family members.


Its hard but you will be less stressed and feel better in the long run.


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Registered: 09-12-2005
In reply to: mrs_jackfrost
Thu, 12-04-2008 - 10:54am

Pat i have avoided Janelles letters on Face book all month now . I told grant to handle it all...he finally did. he knows himself it is a bad idea to be near his ex.

Janelle told him he was the most selfish person she knew. i think that more than hit home to grant. He was so depressed. Then said we are having Christmas here...just us this year...to Bleap with all of them.

He said he does not want to see any of them this season.

I have a gift for each of the grandkids. we won't get to see them but i will have to drop them off at his moms sometime. She will drive the hour to see them all the time.

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In reply to: mrs_jackfrost
Thu, 12-04-2008 - 11:56am

Hugs my friend, just remember what goes around comes around.


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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: mrs_jackfrost
Thu, 12-04-2008 - 12:14pm
Love the idea of you putting something in the paper Glenda,
Can understand how sad it all makes you :(
Hang in there .. they are not worth you getting upset over :)



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Thu, 12-04-2008 - 12:47pm

Mrs. Glenda,

I am so very sorry to hear about all these problems you are having. It sounds to me like there is alot of drama in your life that you do not need. What you and grant should do is pack up the camper and take a trip for the holidays. Make it a yearly event plan your vaction for the holidays and just hit the road and don't look back. There is drama like that in my family, so what I did was just right the whole lot off. I go to my moms or she comes here and thats it. I could care less if I see any of my other relatives, because they are sorry lot of folks and I can not stand to be around them.

Now the other thing is I am glad you are back. At least here you are among friends and you do not have to worry about people judging you and giving you a hard time. I tell ya what pack up the camper and head south you can come down here and visit me and family. There is plenty of room at the cabin for you guys. Ok just a thought.

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In reply to: mrs_jackfrost
Thu, 12-04-2008 - 1:00pm

(((((GLENDA))))))........so much to try and deal with! If you could separate yourself from those that bring so much negativity and sadness into your life. Try to use your energies on your dh and loved ones, most of all yourself! You're such a good and loving person....don't let those that wish you ill get near you.


Now, I'll try to be short about this...I can really understand what you're going through with the family drama. In my case it was my Mother, all started when I was young. I was an only child for the first 10 years of my life....my Dad and I were very close. We always did something special on Saturdays---going to the Zoo, Golden Gate Park, etc., on the way home we would stop and get ice cream cones! My mother made no secret about her "feelings" as long as I can remember, as I grew-up our relationship was always very strained. After I got married I thought perhaps....just maybe we would begin to get along better but NO ......only got worse, especially after our son/1st child was born. At the time they were living in Marin County, I thought the distance had helped just a "little"....didn't but guess again I wanted to try to

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In reply to: mrs_jackfrost
Thu, 12-04-2008 - 1:29pm

Three cheers for you j-man...sure do like your directness, like most all men they "cut to the chase"...no need to go into detail/over explain!!! Thanks....

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