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| Thu, 12-04-2008 - 10:05am |
re: tired on Thursday
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message #: 20151.x in response to 20151.1
from: mrs.jackfrost
to: tulipabeni
date: 8:03 am
Morning All
So what is a special day/ holiday/family get together without someone pissed at me. Well not a day in my life, that is for sure!!
Thats right Janelle moved Austins bday party again. Now the 14th. She AGAIN was askinmg about christmas again. She knows we always have christmas.
So grant FINALY calls her last night. First tells her we can't come to austins bday. But instead of telling her he copuld not get time off...esp this close to christmas. No he says it is too stressful with her mom and step dad there. So her back is us right away. Her mom, she says, is coming and bringing her hubby cory weather he wants to come or not. Told him he was doing it for the kids. Well this jerk mouthed to anyone that would listen last time. Thank god grant is deaf...but i had heard it and worked at keeping them apart.We alos left early so there was no fight. I later told grant what was said...he knew there was more to it when i was so distracted later. He said he would have confronted him...so guess i did the right thing.
So then she is on about me being sick and that is the real reason....grant said partly. Thanks! Make me the fall guy!
Then she says that we don't go to the party...she will not see us for christmas. She complained about the 2 hour drive(we drive it at spead limit for abput 1 hr 20 minites.)
Then she complains that the kids hate dogs and not fond of the cat.
So grant is upset. she has christmas eve and morning with her mom and will go to her soon to be ex inlaws over 4 hours away for part of christmas.
Now we thought it would be easier us not going to the party and less stressful for everyone,Janelle esp., the poor girl that we had to give our air conditioner and upright freezer to. But she is renting the town pool and party romm bside the pool for2 hours. Not cheap! We were all to go in swim suits.Now her mom and dad talk about us in ordinary clothes being fat...can you imaging in swim suits?? Grant alsocan't swim if there is a fight.i am also called the pig and fat b__ch.Her mom calls grant pork chop or worse.
So this is our world.
Now add our adhd kittle and the ornament attacks, the tree stand leaking to a full flood and warping the hardwood, Arliss not calling yet, ...it goes on and on!
The prime minister may be over thrown, my ex's sisters lawyer sent another letter demanding i give them the kids addresses, the oilfield dieing in ressession. It is all too much.
add to that the galbladder attacks and the womans stuff here again.
Just another day calgone could not take you away from!




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Bree
I think my mistake was after cutting mom out years ago, when dad died i helped her...when nobody else would. She told me how much my being there ment to her. The Heather(my sis) desided to get close to mom again. Mom screamed at me the saturday night before the monday funeral. Just freaked on me. She had not seam Grant there. She called me every name in the book, and then Told me i was just a screw up.She said on my dads day i bleaped it up for him. Grant was in shock!! He knew she was cruel to me...but seeing it first hand.
She never did apoligize about it all!
My mom should have been jails for some of the things she did to me.
Dad and i were very close growing up. Sad she kept me from dad all these years.
I want to write her a letter and tell her how i feel and what kind of person she is. Someone needs to put her in her place once and for all!
Then my sister and her kids too!
Once again it will be my little family for Christmas...the way i like it too!
Thanks Fran
I too hope arliss cals soon, or at least writes us!
Thanks Suzan
Grant said too...his daughter knows he can't swim and has a fear of water. He goes in out pool because he can stand up and it is at his waist. I have tried to teach him to swim...taught my boys. i wasalmost at lifegard level when mom had me quit for music lessons. Anyway he is a rock! He can not float at all no matter what we try!
Besides they would pich on us about our size. Her mom wears swimsuits that look like three bandaids. sad but true!
LOL on the kiss...Blowing one you way...that is safer!!
Thanks Donna
We have it on christmas day(eve for greg and his wife) for a couple reasons. Thomas and aj would be alone if we didn't we have always had it then, and grants family has it on the 26th. Last year we did it on the 27 too for Janelle. So three days!! Aj thomas and greg only really get christmas off...that is the oilfield! Thomas usually still has to go out with a load of water for animals or rigs during christmas anyway. grant gets from the 24 to the 26th only off. With the rigs shutting down he will not havew a break before christmas and will have to go to the shop and work on the 27th.Have to work all we can in case more rigs do not come back on line.So because of work and family availability this is what we do. Have done this since 96.
Last year and the year bewfore we made 3 christmas dinners. Cabbage rolls and fixings for Christmas eve, turkey on 25th, leftovers the 26th and Ham for Janelle on the 27th. So we tried to make everyone happy.
Janelle wanted grant to book the 14th off(austins birthday). He can't take time without notice. so many have booked time for shopping and family. some are leaving the week before christmas to be with family.not an option...she does not get it!
So glad you say stay away from grant exand new hubby. toxic does not began to discribe them.
So christmas here on the 25th. We will play board games on the 24th to the 27th...that is what we do . The twinkle tour soon too!
Beverley
I have see pictures of the outside...hint duane!! LOL
His discriptions of the inside are to die for too!!
La
Wow across the street?? reminds me of everyone love raymond LOL
I thank god everyday how far we are from them all!!
BREE !
***NEVER BE POSSESSED BY YOUR POSSESSIONS ***
Dear Glenda.....You really should write that letter...all those you mentioned....then you should let all that "drama" GO my friend. It's time for you and Grant to surround yourself in all the Good and Healthy of this life.....think about giving yourself that GIFT this year...OK?
Yes, I really do miss you...so please don't stay away.
Have a Very Merry Christmas, with all those that honestly Love & Care about you and Grant---
BREE !
***NEVER BE POSSESSED BY YOUR POSSESSIONS ***
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