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Thu, 01-01-2009 - 5:21pm

discussion title: Waving!
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from: mrs.jackfrost
date: 3:18 pm

Wondering where i was??

Well i have been sick again. Saw the dr yesterday and he told me to take things easy. I have lost so much blood again i am very weak. I had to get grant to plug in a cord for me today. It was a hard plug, but still...annoying.
The dr said my body is workingh 10x harder with the bleeding, my galbladder, and asthma. Not good at all. Grant had the day off and drove me. The dr is 45 highway minites away..i was too weak.
He also said that a patient told him she was visiting a friend in the general hospital (here i get surgery), and she toldmy doc that there were 18 ambulances waiting at emergentcy. I find that hard to believe...but he saidthiswas a very truthful woman that told him.He said with the economy everyone is running to saskatchewan(my provience), and manitoba to live and work in the oilfield. The other spin off business's that the economy has fueled can't get workers anymore.No housing. The dr said all thr people waiting surgery and moved to sask. are fueling the problem. He told me to call the dr's monday and express how bad i am. I may have to get appts to prove how weak i am...but he will send an update onm my condition if he needs to.
So that is my health...ps: bonus i have a heal spir on my left heal.

Now christmas was quiet. Just us and aj and thomas. We shopped on the 23rd in estevan, and grant came with me.Then aj got work that he had christmas eve off, so we had to wait for him and take his car to the people that are buying it.Yes his only vieacle he had.He again sold a vehicle before he had another.We got home late and missed the office party. Good i couldn't have sat through that anyway.

Janelle never called or showed. I had her and the grandkids gifts dropped at grants moms. Janelle wa there on the 26th.His mom has to have that day...so we never get to see janelle on christmas or boxing day because of it.We stayed at home all christmas...except to take aj home on the 26th.

Arliss talked to aj on the puter christmas eve. Hew was sad he could not make it home.

Christmas eve aj crashed the puter. N oidea how...but it shut itself off and we could not get it to come on again.so we unplugged it all. Christmas day it started up(our christmas miracle LMBO!!)I spent 2 days cleaning it out. Then checking email amd on facebook from time to time. Too weak to stay on here long.

The good news is i am without aunt flow for the first time in 5 weeks. Cross your fingers guys!! i need a break!

strill have decorations to take down...but not today. i took the village down before the cat killed it, sad but true!

Delisio pizza tonight. I hope the galbladder can take it. almost constant attacks now. I drink milk for my tummy...with the meds hurting it, but milk sets off the galblader. darned is i do darned if i don't.I have meds for the tummy and milk is the only thing that helps.The back pain from my galbladder is awful too.

So that is where i have been. Depressed and not healthy. Partly why i haven't posted. didn't want to kill the christmas spirit!

Hope you all have been well!


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In reply to: mrs_jackfrost
Mon, 01-05-2009 - 1:16pm

Thanks Donna

Now that my aunt (flo) has left...i feel a bit better. Hoping she stays away.

Still taking things easy!

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In reply to: mrs_jackfrost
Mon, 01-05-2009 - 1:24pm

Thanks miriam

Yes you would know of the dr bull we have here.

we live in a very small town in the southest corner. We have a hospital in town...but it is mainly a nursing home now.The next closest drs are about 45 minites away in two different directions.Not much for drs here . the big city is 3.5 or 4 hours away.Regins and winnipeg, that is.

I mentioned next year to dh. we had talked about going to see arliss at christmas. Then he says ...what about Janelle. Ok i give up!! she has him feeling guilty about them not seeing her as a teen(her moms fault).

I wish grant would just lay down the law with her. i told him she had to let us know at least a month in advance about holidays. This few days before gives us no chance to plan for ourselves. i also have to buy the turkey and other things before the stores go nuts.

I just want to take grant and janelle and bang there heads together.

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In reply to: mrs_jackfrost
Mon, 01-05-2009 - 1:33pm

I hope you are feeling much better by now.


No I am still living with my daughter and sil.


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In reply to: mrs_jackfrost
Mon, 01-05-2009 - 1:37pm

Beverley

Just think of the nice place you will be able to have in a year!

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Registered: 09-13-2005
In reply to: mrs_jackfrost
Mon, 01-05-2009 - 1:41pm

OH NO!!! You have two hard headed people in your family. ha ha ha What if you talked to Janelle yourself. No one has or had the perfect life. Janelle has to learn to get pass it and move on. Turn the page and go forward and then she may be a happier women. As for your husband, perhaps he has to work on himself first about his guilt and then he will be able to deal with Janelle and not allow her to make him feel guilty any more.

How are you feeling now? It's difficult when you live in a small town and there is not a lot of doctors and you have to travel to a hospital that is not close by.

Glenda, sweetheart, you take care of yourself, and the next holiday that comes up and if Janelle won't apply to your request of letting you know at least a month ahead, then it is her loss, of course it is your husband and your loss as well, but you have to do what is good for you.If you need a month to prepare, well that is what you take.

sending you (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGE HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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In reply to: mrs_jackfrost
Mon, 01-05-2009 - 1:41pm

Yes I keep that as a dream.


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