Family...so upset!!

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Family...so upset!!
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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 10:42am

Can you belive my aut writes me last night that she and my other aunt are talkinmg to my sister. Thats right. my sisi swore up and down to my mom that she wants nothing to do with dads sisters. so mom and heather (the girl that would not take mom home when dad died)and now thick as thieves.

So hear is the story now. I have no mom. my sis sucked up to mom and squeezed all my family out.Then horrible letters from my sisters daughters.No contact from my aunt on moms side or from dads one sister that talks to mom.

to go a step farther ...now heather is talking to my aunts on dads side(the ones mom hates), and telling mom she never has spoken to them.

Then there is my sister going on line to my friends on facebook and telling them lies.Now shew is on to my msn friends and calling friends that live near her.

So what does a person do to stop all this?? I am so sick of it all. I guess other than my imediate family...i have no one!

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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 2:19pm

So what does a person do to stop all this?? I am so sick of it all. I guess other than my imediate family...i have no one!


Glenda, there's not much you can do to stop it, just do your best to

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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 2:20pm
{{{Glenda}}}
Am sad to hear this for you ::sigh::
Not right, no fair & definitely not nice :(
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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 4:54pm
I totally agree with Fran. You can't change it, you can only control how you cope with it. Eliminate toxic relationships from your life and you will be better off

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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 5:56pm

thanks fran

i think i let it bother me so much is because i have had my aunts and no one else for yars...till i met grant. My sis has always had mom and dad. can't do anything wrong you know.It just all makes me feel so alone and not worth their time

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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 5:57pm
Thanks hugs that means a lot
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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 6:00pm

so true donna

I just feel used and so alone. My aunts have been all i had for a family for years...esp since my grandma passed.

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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 6:13pm

Hi Glenda, I also have a 'disfunctional' family and becaue of the pain my sisters were causing - I made a big decision - I would have to 'let go and let God'.

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Registered: 03-22-2005
Tue, 01-13-2009 - 6:25pm

Hi Glenda,sending you big warm hugzzzz (((()))),I also know what it's like to be treated this way.


Sometimes we just have to let go,it's just not worth all the upset.


Consentrate all all the good people in your life and dont stress about the others.


Chin up,Von.

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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 6:27pm

Thanks rusty

I guess i am ripped because these aunts were all i had...now i will have no one beyond my immediate family.

I told grant last night i needed to stop talking to my aunts if they were going to keep in contact with heather, knowing what she did to me and how she is playing everyone against each other.I still wonder if it is about the will and what dad left. So sad!! But mom said that is what they would do...hate to admit she might be right.

When dad died heather swore to mom she had no connection to my aunts...that i gave them her addy and email. NOT!! she begged me to put her in contact and i wrote my aunts and told them she was all alone. Boy am i a sucker!!

I have a dr appt on the 13th of feb and my one aunt keeps asking me when i will be in hospital.I told grant no way am i letting her know. I feel like i am being set up. why all of the sudden is she so interested?? I have a feeling she is asking to tell my sister and her kids. Just like my sis...she would show up and start trouble i the hospital.

Well they can all live in their own little world.I am done. Just wish i had a way to teach my sis a lesson...she will walk away again playing the poor hurt girl and people will believe her too!She needs to learn from what she has done....this is why she cried she has no friends...now i know why.

Rusty

That is just aweful hat your family did. are you sure we are not related?? Why do people think they can get away with this stuff?? evil, just evil!

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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 6:29pm

thanks von

Hope someday these people get what is coming to them!

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