Family...so upset!!

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Family...so upset!!
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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 10:42am

Can you belive my aut writes me last night that she and my other aunt are talkinmg to my sister. Thats right. my sisi swore up and down to my mom that she wants nothing to do with dads sisters. so mom and heather (the girl that would not take mom home when dad died)and now thick as thieves.

So hear is the story now. I have no mom. my sis sucked up to mom and squeezed all my family out.Then horrible letters from my sisters daughters.No contact from my aunt on moms side or from dads one sister that talks to mom.

to go a step farther ...now heather is talking to my aunts on dads side(the ones mom hates), and telling mom she never has spoken to them.

Then there is my sister going on line to my friends on facebook and telling them lies.Now shew is on to my msn friends and calling friends that live near her.

So what does a person do to stop all this?? I am so sick of it all. I guess other than my imediate family...i have no one!

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Wed, 01-14-2009 - 6:53am
Hi Glenda , I have to agree with the others, you family is up to no good and you are the victim. IMHO you MUST cut the ties that bind. Only that way will you be freed from being constantly hurt.
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Wed, 01-14-2009 - 8:33am

Aw, (((Glenda))) I'm so sorry you're going through all this.


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Wed, 01-14-2009 - 8:50am

suzan...i will cut ties. i do have a wonderful family here and great friends on line and in life(my very caring family).

That is just awful not kowing where your mom is. You know most of north america now has the cemetaries online. You can get a list of who is there and when they died and were burried now. Sone even have a map so you can see where they are in the cemetary. A few places here have just redone their map and have a key person to call and they give all the info.When we lost dad...the place we burried us told us all about the websites. They have a very extensive one.

A friend and i talked on face book last night and she told me her sis still talked to mine...well at least till recently. She now knows she was used too.

I don't let my fam know anything that happens in my life anymore...esp my aunts. I really did not appreciate the way my sis treated them and now they are buds...come on that is nuts!!Then i got thinking. I told my sis that they still had my grandparents money in an account and told me i would get some of it. This explains why my sister is playing everyone against each other.

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Wed, 01-14-2009 - 9:02am

Thanks Ann

I will cut ties with them. Grant and i talked about it and so did my friend roxx and i. we have been friends since we were 4.

One thing we disgussed is mom never cried when dad died...but said he finally found a way to get away from her...sadbut true!! She made dads life hell.

I lately have desided that dad was as much to blame for my lack of family. He knew what mom was like to me and never tried to see me. He was an adult and i should have been more important that they money she would get in a divorce.

also my aunt sent me an article a few weeks ago that mom wrote in a senior mag. All about her childhood christmas and how it was the best since they were all together.Doesn't say much for us does it??

Let them have each other. They are all so self absorbed that they have no idea what true love is! I have that, in many ways and from many people!

an old friend called last night but i was too sick to take the call. I will call her back tonight. always an interesting convosation. she has two kids and one is in and out of jail, poor girl.She was also the one who had the blind date with grant when i stole him LMBO!! She still talks about that LOL. We are still pretty close. We used to got out and have great times. One night we went to play pool and two older guys tried to pick us up. She liked them but i told them no becuse they were married. No rings, but i knew!! They asked how i could even guess that. i told them because the one guys pants were ironed...i was right.! Isabel still talks about that night.

You all are right...i HAVE GREAT FRIENDS!

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Wed, 01-14-2009 - 9:26am

{{glenda}}i hope someday you get peace

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Wed, 01-14-2009 - 10:01am

sad to say pat...but maybe my mom was right...my aunts just want to see if they can get anything from the estate.

I think the reasonit upset me so much is that my sis tricked me into getting her back with my aunts. As usual i helped and now she has everyone and i being nice again...have lost them all. that and the fact that at one time i livedwith one of the aunts and we were really close. teh other aunt had me out to her place many times...even sent a ride when i could not get there. so wierd that they now are heathers people.

well if that is what they want to do then they all deserve themselves!

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