Waving!!

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Registered: 03-08-2005
Waving!!
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Thu, 06-04-2009 - 5:19pm

Afternoon all


Haven't been round much...the puter just hates ivillage lately. I keep geting notices on here to cancel script that is slowing puter or puter may freeze...It does!! So by the time i get my stuff posted to the outdoors activities and campng board(a very busy time) I am plain and simple fed up! I have to send in the puter soon for repairs. The bank account is very sad!!


Grant has been cranky for a couple weeks now. My health isn't making things easy for any of us. i even had to cut back on meds so grant could get gas...then he bought dinner. Guess how mad i was??


Grant finally wrote a family member to tell them where to go and we are dome with them unless they recognize our wedding and have a party for us like they do for others. Also we had to be treated better. Guess what ...no response almost 3 weeks ago!


Grant is getting a few rig moves...but not enough. He goes to work and works in the shop(12 dollars less an hour...a rip off but we are desperate. He hates the shop and working with certain people...to bad i had to do it for years as he kept switching jobs!


Grant won't cut the grass or weed whip...till last night when he whipped a space to fix his truck. yes he bought another junker! Then he left the lawn mower empty and the weed whip tangled inside. i looked for the string for the weed whip for a half hour.


Thomas is very busy at work...he gets home late so i do his chores or have to listen to grant. so tired of that. I am sure the stress is what makes me so sick lately.


Then they put in a new power pole and we had to call the cable guy. They didn't tell us they unhooked...we found out at the 6 o'clock news. That is still a rant for grant...happend tuesday!


Thomas has his grad on the 25th. He is one of the only kids that will not have grandparents at his grad. i feel so bad at him. Then he is forced to be the bosses sons friend..or the kid makes his life 'he double hockey sticks'! The kids has interupted thomas's time with his girlfriend everyday for a month. follows them or gets the company truck stuck on a back road 1 am. i am sure he did that on purpose. I told him not to call at night it wakes us all up...he turned to thomas and told him put it on vibrate...he was not stopping. so i told him...then i will call his parents at 1am and ask them to take his phone! He told me off and told me to get out of thomas' rv. then refused to leave my yard. I have top talk to his parents or i will get in trouble hauling him off our property! what a donkry other name!! Then his sister this last month thought it was funny at 1am to take thomas' girlfriends truck and was honking the horn. nice huh??


So all that and aj lost his job...he is now 2 hours away. he said he tried to stop the drugs and can't. he is 21. Nothing i can do but call the police about having drugs...which i don't want to do.


Thomas leaves for camp (outdoor experiance camp up north) on tuesday. they will travel by canoe, protage(carry the canoe arround rough water) and camp at new spots everynight. will be gone a week.


Then i have this month to buy the grad pics or i can't get them at all. so many bills and grant thinks money grows on tree's. For a month he brought home two paychecks of $8.50 each. So the freezer is empty. Glad i have clothes for grad already.


It is all really too much. I just want to scream!! I keep moving dr appts..bnecause grant spent the money. Next week i will be taking the truck and getting all i need before he gets to it! i have to. It is like having money on the table and a 6 year old taking it outside to watch it blow away.


Well thats it. can't believe i have been on here so long and not kicked off. will have to copy incase it disappears!


Miss you guys! hope everyone is well!

 


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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2005
In reply to: veercan2005
Thu, 06-04-2009 - 5:31pm
Thomas just called...he wrote off his car...hit the back of a semi. he says his hand hurts. i have grant calling and on his way! will let you know when i find out what happened.

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Registered: 03-08-2005
In reply to: veercan2005
Thu, 06-04-2009 - 6:48pm

OK thomas thinks he is ok. Grant has him now. He hit the grain truck that was turning in front. they need a turn lane there. In the winter thier are deer all over an a little bridge just past where he hit.


It was thomas' fault. His mind was on other things. Just glad he was ok.


No get this! Thier is no cop on duty here right now!! he had to clean out his car, and the tow truck is coming from 3 towns away. There is a to truck right there...but they didn't call it.


Now how stupid is it not to have a cop on duty?? the next nearest cop is one 3/4 of an hour away in manitoba...who will not come unless emergentcyu because different provience. One north of here where i dr. 3/4 of an hour away also. Then the one after that is over an hour away. We are 10-15 minies from the border...who would they call if they had trouble.


Another case of dudley do right...idiots!!

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Registered: 09-01-2003
In reply to: veercan2005
Fri, 06-05-2009 - 7:14am

glad to hear thomas was ok. his camping trip sounds like fun!!congrats on his graduation!!!


sure hope grant gets better hours soon & stop being wasteful.hopefully his mood will be better


sad for aj...will he go into a rehab?


hope you get a bit of peace & relax a bit this weekend :O)


hugs

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Registered: 03-08-2005
In reply to: veercan2005
Fri, 06-05-2009 - 8:37am

What we now know


He was on his way home from school.He was mad that he leaves onm the camping trip sunday morning at 5am, and his boss waqnts a bunch of stuff painted(days of work) before he goes. School test are the week he comes back...so no studing. Then two teachers sent work that needs to be done by the 15th....some assignments to do with the book(he has read) lord of the flies( the teacher gave a second assignment yesterday) and

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Registered: 09-12-2003
In reply to: veercan2005
Fri, 06-05-2009 - 8:42am

Gee Glenda, really sorry for Thomas, hope is he OK (hand also,, ),, now he has no wheeels?

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Registered: 03-08-2005
In reply to: veercan2005
Fri, 06-05-2009 - 8:42am

morning pat


I think thomas' accident was an eye opener for grant. He took off to the accident scene as soon as i told him. He said thomas was so upset!


Thomas is still upset...poor kid. he is so responcible for a kid his age. He has the world on his shoulders.


Aj will not go to rehad...sayshe has tried to quit. Then tells me without his permission he won't be put in rehab. make me so sad! I am so afraid something will happen to him!


I need a break....but don't see one in the near future!

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Registered: 03-08-2005
In reply to: veercan2005
Fri, 06-05-2009 - 8:57am

Thanks Suzan


Until aj desides he needs help there is nothing i can do. sadly here the person needing help gets to make the desision on what they need...unless he tries to harm himself or others!


I do have to hide money again. he was like this when we lived by estevan about 9 years ago now. I had my breakdown and he desided to take over the finances. well a few month later...i had to take over. we had lost the house(my income was gone and his was less.) I took over the bills in time to take aj to vancouver for throat surgery. his airway was constricted from his accident (he had a trach) and now had growth in that area. I cane home paid bills, found the neighbour killed our cats and grant took a job out of town . had two weeks to find a house and move. I have always had to be the rock and the voice of reason. i am so sick of having to the the mature dependable one. I think that has a lot to do with my bad nerves!


as for thomas...i can be there for him and hopefully he will be able to work through this all in his mind. He is so stressed. like me he had always been the one to be dependable. His boss is a drunk and so is a fellow worker. His bosses son is a butthole...spoiled and ignorant. He would love to see thomas without a trip!


I think today i will try and keep busy. Water indoor and outdoor plants, laundry, dishes and maybe was some floors!


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Registered: 03-14-2007
In reply to: veercan2005
Fri, 06-05-2009 - 9:02am

Oh, goodness, so much stuff is happening to you


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Registered: 03-08-2005
In reply to: veercan2005
Fri, 06-05-2009 - 9:20am

Thanks Donna


One day at a time...that is all i can do.

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In reply to: veercan2005
Fri, 06-05-2009 - 9:45am

I don't know how you have stayed sane with everything you're going through. My heart goes out to you.


I hope things get better for you soon. I hope AJ comes to his senses


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