Just another day in my life!

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Registered: 03-08-2005
Just another day in my life!
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Thu, 08-20-2009 - 8:15pm

First off...about 2 more months till my surgeries. the bed line finally called back after 2 weeks of waiting. gov office only open mopnday to friday. She said they were trying to coordinate between the two dr's surgery time to get both surgeries done. so i wait. But am glad she said i was at the top of the surgery list now. I had lost some hope on friday when i got a letter form both dr's. One said that thier were more important pewople ahead of me...in short, and i had to wait. I think he was ticked that my dr wrote. We been at this coming on three years  now. both dr's wrote saying...but i was only on the list 1.5 years. That is since i signed the surgery permission...not since dianosed. Guess that does not count.


so the gyno dr said that there were still a couple people ahead of me...they didn't forget about me. Guess i can just wait.


sadly not being able to do much has added the pounds on me. I am ashamed how much igained. The dr says lack of exersize and not eating enough...my body is retaining. sad but true!


that is the good news.


The annoying news is grants family just does not get it. We now got a letter telling us that on my birthday they are having his parents anniversary. Now it was supposed to be the long week in sept...but others had plans. we so do we!! It is my birthday. if not having surgery, we are going to regina to visit friends. No we are not doing another family thing. we have told them that. then they want me to tell everyone else. Well my kids do not care. they have been treated like poo. grants daughter knows and his son has nothing to do with any of us since he was 12. yes mommy's doing. i imagine we will get a list of what job is ours. every list over the years had me bethroom cleaning...HA! Thier will also be a list of who has to supply what. we always get a big thing cause i don't work and we are closer. There will also be a price per person for meals and arranging lodging. last time they though we should bring campers for others to use. not happening.


Then i went off on a neighbor. how much are you supposed to take?? He was what he called walking his dog...without a leash! He watched it run through my flowers and pee. Then told me off when i told him to leash his dog! he said he was walking it and nobody leashes here. hello the bylaw was sent out in the mail again. he does not care. this is a town drunk with a temper. doesn't work...not sure why. stays up late with music sop loud you can sing along. Just a jerk! He used to work where grant does and was fired for being so drunk he was asleep on a rig move. everyone hated him.


so those are my complaints for today lol taking a deep breath!


sorry not around much. tired of being rejected on a board i used to love. hurts. had the one girl; attack me on facebook. probably because she will not be called on it there. lost friends that i exchanged cards with yearly...so sad!


so glad you are all here for me. I have been playing games and sleeping. trying to get well for surgery. also hurt my back bad helping grant gyproc. tried to put it on the ceiling. my back is a bit better now though.


so that is my world. still raining off and on. the wind is high too.


 


 


 


 

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Registered: 03-14-2007
Thu, 08-20-2009 - 10:39pm

There you are!! I just replied to you in another post asking the status on AJ and the apartment move? Did he get his things out of that scary neighborhood to


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Registered: 03-08-2005
Thu, 08-20-2009 - 11:33pm

aj is in a house in a scetchy area. his back window smashed out the first night. He is working at a tire place for a boss he had in estevan. the boss lovbes him. he put aj on a training thingy journey man. he will have his paper if they heep him or doen't see greener grass!


I am crossing my finger for the surgery. H1N1 will be big then...nice huh?? Have to go get the shot soon as it comes out!


Grants loves the idea of the note "leave us alone". he may do that yet! all parties are on my birthday...always have been. family, friends and turkey (some friends) too!


the neighbor is awful. he was fired for being drunk. worked someplace after for a short time. he is a big drunk with a rot head. his last girlfriend had to escape.


So lucky i have you guys. some of the old board talks to me. a couple are going through a lot right now too. so some know and

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Registered: 03-14-2007
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 12:43am

You mean AJ's boss is sending him for Journeyman training? That's very good and a real plus for him to advance! They have Journeyman training for welding, electricians, plumbers, systems administration, lineworker, refridgeration, and more. No, I didn't remember all of those, had to look them up..LOL!!


Geez, I sure hope you don't get the hinie flu!! I hope none of us do!! I'll be getting the shot too, don't know yet if it's a separate shot or included in the standard flu shot. I expect it's combined into one shot, but will see.


Glad Grant liked the "Leave us alone!" note..go for it!!


Geez, be careful around that drunk, sounds scary!! Laws don't seem to be carried out there..except for where you and Grant can park your cars!! I remember that problem a ways back too.


You know, I had a swim suit something like that when I was about junior high age. Sure wouldn't look that good on me now!! LOL!!





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Registered: 09-12-2003
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 4:00am

HI Glenda,


I have

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2002
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 6:43am

Oh Glenda - I am so happy you can at least see the surgeries on the horizon now.

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Registered: 03-08-2005
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 12:08pm

morning donna


yes he is getting a journeymans in machanics...too cool huh?? of all the people he has to change tires on a vehicle the first day...it was my first husband LMBO!! He was glad to see aj and told the boss how get aj was at his job. so nice.


Here in canada they still have not desided who will get the shot first. How stupid is that?? I have a feeling they may bring it into grants workplace. you see one of the boss's wives is a RN. So they really don't want anyone geting it...it would spread fast!


Ya dennis is a scarry drunk. Grant got warned about him at work yesterday. he does property damage when mad. he also used to teach boxing. add booze abd a a real donkeys butt! If i back down though he will get worse, i am sure.


LOL on the swimsuit.!!

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Registered: 03-08-2005
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 12:17pm

morning suzan


ya grant was pretty upset about the letter. He can't believe they sent it after he told them before to leave us alone. They just don't get it. Even if we end up staying home , we would not go. Thomas could not believe they wanted him there either. They can all blow!


So glad surgery is finally on the horizon. Just hope the hinie flu stays away. if it hits here like they think...the surgeries will be cancelled.


Ya i moved on from other boards. Just now have to take mostof the people off facebook from there. sad they have to be like that.


So tired today. Had a horrible headache last night. maybe it was a migrane...really never had a headache like that before. my teeth, eyes, neck, back shoulders were killing ne. i was also so nausious. Had to hole the back of my head. Felling better now but tired!


Hope everyone hasa great day and weekend

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Registered: 03-08-2005
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 12:20pm

thanks teri


I can't wait. i have been sick for so long. I just want to be able to dothings again like i used to.

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Registered: 09-01-2003
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 1:36pm

YEAH...you are getting closer to surgery :O) hope they get it scheduled soon! LISTEN to your docs young lady!!!


nasty neighbor. hate those kind!


if you are not going to grants family don't let it bother you. just tell them you have birthday plans and let it be. why stress over it?


we like you here...we'll keep you around...LOL

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Registered: 01-18-2003
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 2:33pm

Hi Glenda...I've read your posts and all the replies....I have nothing really to add...Just wanted to say I'm really happy that it looks like your surgery will be happening fairly soon...it's about time!


There is always so much happening in your life, I just don't know how you deal with it all while not feeling well....


Take good care....HUGS~~


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