I JUST NEED SOME HUGS & PRAYERS

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Registered: 09-01-2003
I JUST NEED SOME HUGS & PRAYERS
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Sat, 11-07-2009 - 9:27pm

tragically i lost a nephew early this morning in a fire. my nephew CHARLIE HEWITT was only 20 years old.he is the  son of my ex-bil.i am very close with his mom,him,his brother & sisters~they will always be family to me.he was just a great kid.just 6 weeks younger than jeremy....they could have passed for twins...except charlie was taller


i have been with the family all day. i just found out today his older brother lives 3 houses up the street from me.it is senseless...i am just in total numbing shock. i can't even bear to watch the news anymore....just looking at the video of the house makes me sick to my stomach.


we all went to a candle ligt vigil his friends held at his high school. so many people there..all coming out for support. it was incredible.it is such a sensless tragedy


i am so exhausted.i will be around to poke in and let you know how i am doing.


thank you my friends.i love you all :O)


 

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Registered: 03-14-2007
Mon, 11-09-2009 - 1:24am

Oh, Pat, I am so saddened for you and all who knew and loved this young man. What a terrible tragedy.


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Mon, 11-09-2009 - 10:29am

Oh Pat.....((()))

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Registered: 03-08-2005
Mon, 11-09-2009 - 10:13pm
(((((((((((hugs))))))))) pat. i could never imagine what you and your family is going through. Sending lota of hugs and p&pt!

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Registered: 09-01-2003
Tue, 11-10-2009 - 12:42am

thank you everybuddy. this has been soo overwhelming...so surreal. even after everything was released to the media...it has not sunk in. we all keep thinking it is just a bad dream.


today was nice. my friend took me off to the beach today. we sat out on the jetty for several hours..just watching the waves and birds.it was so peaceful...i really needed that. he is so sweet and thoughtful.


tonite i went over to see everyone. sigh...that was rough.tomorrow is maddie- my sil grandaughter's birthday. we will gather affter dinner for that. the ex & his family will be there. but i will see justin :O) i cannot wait to see him and just hug him.


the rest of the week wil be a blur with services and all. just too much to take in


thank you all

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Registered: 01-18-2003
Tue, 11-10-2009 - 1:11pm

Pat that

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Registered: 03-14-2007
Tue, 11-10-2009 - 3:36pm

That's a good friend to have, just what you need now. Bless your heart with all you're having to face. I hope things are not too uncomfortable being near the x and his family. Wonderful you'll get to see Justin. May God continue to give you strength to face it all.


Loving Hugs to you dear friend.


~ Donna


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Registered: 08-01-2004
Thu, 11-12-2009 - 11:52pm

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope and wish the best for you and your loved ones. There's a reason why I don't watch the news really and that's one reason why. I'm sorry.


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