May I whine...before Wednesday ?????

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May I whine...before Wednesday ?????
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Mon, 12-07-2009 - 8:16am

Like I don;t have enough stress right now !!!!!


My cousin just called & asked me to go with her for a 2nd opinion, in Boston hosp (again)..as she had a u/s & showed a nodule on her lung ! She wants me in the exam room too !  Of course, I said I would surley go w/ her !!!!


This is the same cousin that was undergoing chemo, last year..(at this very same time of year) & I was taking her back & forth !  Where is her husband ??? She also, has 3 sisters !!..... she keeps telling me I am her rock !!!  WHERE IS MY ROCK ????


Don't get me wrong...I am willingly going with her..but, I feel so badly for her ...plus, yesterday was such a stressful day.........1st... in the am....dh was doing his weekly med container....he was so confused...he kept asking me, after looking at the pills so confused...what is this one for ????WHAT.....he has been taking these pills for years.....OMG !!!!


Then at my brothers Xmas party....."problem child" was there....never engaged in a 1 on 1 conversation w/me ! chatted w/ everybody else, but not her usual jovial way ! Finally, I stood in front of her & asked her if she was coming to our house for xmas (as never responded to other ways of communication)....she never looked  me in the eye... looked at the table & smirked abit & said.."Ohhh...I don't know" !!!!!!!!!!   My sil..started asking me about the recipe for my cookies...just to change the subject....as she said she saw the fire in my eyes !!   I just walked in the other room & started picking up wrapping paper....my ds & sil  said they thought I was gonna blow -up....I guess my face does'nt hide how I feel...especially w/ the foolish situation......at least Cameron was very happy to see me !!  Cameron;s dad was even acting odd...he talked to me, but I felt as tho  he was just being a phoney  (like his mother ).....I better shut-up cuz...this could get nasty !!


But, it just seemed as tho, my cousin asking me to be with her....just added to the extra stress...that sent me over the edge !!


Sorry for rambling...but, this could'nt wait till Wednesday whines!  Hopefully, when I go to the hosp, myself on Wed.....I don't have another whine to write about !!! grrrrr.


If you are still reading this....thanks for "listening" !!!! sighhhh !


 

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Registered: 04-09-1999
Mon, 12-07-2009 - 12:40pm
Hope your stresses lessen.....Hugs, Ruth





 


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Registered: 03-08-2005
Mon, 12-07-2009 - 12:53pm

Huggs Bunny!


After this hospital visit with her you may have to tell her you just have too much on your plate right now. She has other people she can turn to!


We are your rock!! we will always be here for you honey!


Sending good vibes for your visit at hospital~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


The pills i have trouble remembering too...sad but true. You would not believe how many times i have forgotten, or taken the evening pills instead of the morning ones. sadly the evening pills have a sleeping pill in them. LOL back to bed!! I got to brandon (over 2 hour drive), dh was with me and i had to fight the pill all day!


I have the big pill rack. 7 days in 4 sections a day and i still make mistakes! sad but true!! doews you dh have the big pill container?? It does help if you stop to read the times LOL

Glenda's Christmas

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Registered: 09-12-2003
Mon, 12-07-2009 - 4:26pm

Hi Bunny,


Oh I would be distressed too.

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Registered: 03-14-2007
Tue, 12-08-2009 - 4:32pm
Oh, no, this is way too much crap to have to deal with!! Bless your heart, these are all big problems and the stress can really take it's toll on you! I so hope your cousin's second opinion reports are good..your DD figures out that the turmoil isn't worth the

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