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| Sat, 12-19-2009 - 9:50am |
Can you believe that we had it all set. we had friends to sit with at the Christmas party.
Well yesterday at work grants friend tells him that his nephews wife sent a letter to our friends again. She was begging the friend to get us to let them sit will all of us, at the company Christmas party. They want to appoligise to us at the party and be friends again.
We just want them to leave us alone! Guess it is not going to happen.
Now our friends wife says she is going to see if she can get a shift that night so she will not have to be there for the party and see the family fight.
we just want to be left alone. you see he works out of estevan...not carnduff like grant. the estevan people are a very small group that come because of the hour drive.
also in the letter it goes on about how our friend needs to get us all back together. What a B! We are so fed up! Now we may not go to the party either. Where we will sit ...they said they will sit because they know we won't cause a scene!. You know i have enought to worry about!
So do i send her a letter back?? She did not listen last time and has done the letter thing to our friends again. You see our friends don't want them there either. Grants nephews(rob) wife (debbie) too my friends sealed wedding dress and opened it thinking she could get married in it. Do you know how much it costs to seal them again..not to mention she didn't want to lend the dress. This is how pushy debbie is. She is the family fight starter. he is the family mooch / thief!
to top that off...i had a dream. soemtimes my dreams to reflect the future. this dream was more than 2 weeks ago. i dreamt that they showed up at our home just after we left the party. Dropped the kids off here, and went to the party. they had left the kids here with thomas' girlfriend. pushed in the door and left. then came to the party. we got a call at the party they did that. then they follow us home and think we are letting them stay there for the night.
I am sick to my stomach about this. i have enough on my plate already! Just leave us alone. i also expect this is happening so that debbie can be a hero in the family and maybe get us home (to the inlaws) for christmas/boxing day!



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I'll address the last part first,, remember that that was just a dream...
Von.
Von.
The dream was just your subconscious working through the stress this is causing you. I want to say to just go and have a nice time and stay away from them as much as possible. If it were me though, I would have a knot in my stomach walking
Sadly they are long tables of 10 or more. everyone comes with friends and sits. You have to hope you cn find someone to sit with.
This week has been NUTS!! You guys would not believe it.
well not sure what i all told last...but!
Aj is home. He needs emergentcy throat surgery in winnipeg or vancouver. dayly we wait for the call. His throat the specialist says is closing off. If he got sick...that might be it. So where ever it is i will be going, sick or not! I am the only one! So as soon as we find out we need an sgi person setting it all up. needless to say winnipeg is best for me. Grant, and thomas could come up and give me a break. it is a 4 our drive.
Sadly aj ia an unbelievable handfull. He is detoxing. he was on pot, and a few others. the smoking withdrawl is bad enough.
He is never still. Unless he is sleeping...then he is dead to the world.
he is always on the puter, grabbing the controller, eating 24/7 ...leaving me the dishes all over. He is hard to talk to. he has anger outbursts. part the drug, smokes, and work withdrawl. Very hyper. Talking on facebook and having friends not treat him well then another fit! we are all on our last nerves.
Part two!
thomas was throwing up heavily for 4 days...so weak. not he would not let me take him to the dr. Sunday his girlfriend finally did. Thank god! Not his dr...one i droped a long time ago..idiot!quack!
so they keep him there all day then get him to hold down water. Then at 9pm i get a call...there is no bed for him. Hello!!!! he is in a bed! No he will have to be driven to estevan(one hour from there.
Pat
I am not sure if we are going at all. I am so exausted (read what i wrote susan above).
while getting away would be nice...grant would love it. I just don't know if i need that poo . enough is enough. grant still wants to go...so we will see. Depends on my nerves and how tight i can hold aj and duct tape him in the closet! LOL
Hopefully this will be over soon. Aj wants to go back to the city...but i see him looking for drugs. he is already mad i told him he lives here NO DRUGS At All!
thanks donna
sadly laura won't say anything. she may just stay home.
debbie(the nephews new wife) will just want her way. that is how she is. she loves trouble. I truely hate her!she has made my life a living hell. they are mooches and liers. they will find a way to get in our table...that is what she will do!
Grant wants to go...but me i don't need the stress. We will see when he gets home tomorrow!
Awww Glenda..don't let all those fools get to ya !!! I know, easier said then done...I have my issues here too !!! sighh !
If I were you ..I would just stay home...who says you HAVE to attend !!
Thanks suzan!
Grant just called and would still like to go. e said he is going to call his nephew when he gets home and lay down the law. he is sick of all this.
I just want to curl up in the blanket and watch tv!
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